Sunday, April 17, 2011 Blessing #345
Happy Palm Sunday. This morning we headed to church--and Jean and her family came too! It was fabulous. I love my church so much, but I wish more of my family went there. Growing up with Daddy preaching, I was seldom at church without sisters and/or Grand parents. I miss that so much--being in the pew, the Bible study, or Sunday school with family.
After church we had our Celebratory Lunch and Egg Hunt. Chip, Katie, Carson, Miles, and Dylan loved hunting eggs--and they each got a ton!
It was a blessing to celebrate Jesus' triumphant entry to Jerusalem--and even more so because I had so much family to share it with!
Monday, April 18, 2011 Blessing #346
I headed out to walk today and met up my neighbor, Judy. I walked yesterday too, and I do love it, but it still helps motivate me to have an appointment with a friend. Katie and her daughter Ella are the same age and attend school together--so the time flew as we compared stories showcasing their stubborn, strong personalities. I just got to thinking---in no time we'll be sharing stories of parenting teenage girls. How neat that we'll share all this history! Just imagine; homecoming, prom, boyfriends, sports, and sleepovers. I am blessed to be a part of this community.
Tuesday, April 19, 2011 Blessing #347
Still walking! That makes 3 days in a row--and I am feeling fabulous. I am having some pain in my left leg from the bulging disk in my back, but so far my press ups are keeping it a bay. Have I ever talked here about my back injury? About 3 months after Katie was born I herniated two disks in my low back--and in my left leg, I lost reflexes and feeling. (this was just a symptom from weakness caused by too much bed rest with the sepsis. A week in the hospital will just zap your strength). The neurosurgeon was keen to operate when the problem kept getting worse instead of better--but I was nursing a new baby and wouldn't agree to surgery. I spent 6 weeks on my stomach whenever possible and worked several times a week in intensive rehab. Ultimately, I healed--but I still get flare ups. In fact, I was scared this pregnancy and/or delivery would send me under the knife with a recurrence of the herniations. Well, I'm not out of the woods yet--but I am thankful that so far I'm still standing!
Monday, April 25, 2011
Friday, April 22, 2011
Dear Bank of America, Please Return my Soul
Funny Title-but so true! Today our debt is on my mind......Maybe I should actually buy a lottery ticket?
Monday, April 11, 2011 Blessing # 339
It was fabulous to wake up at home today--and to not have to put Henslee in the car seat. I feel like the poor thing was cooped up all weekend in that seat while Mom and I were at the conference. I had no idea how exhausted that trip would make me--even though I had a blast making memories. It was a lot--hiking hills and toting this baby and all her gear. I am feeling stronger, but I got pretty anemic at the end of my pregnancy, and it takes a long time to recover from that. So, today, I am beat. I am thrilled to sit on the couch and stare at and cuddle with my baby--Oh, and I'm going to give her a bath to get the travel grime off. There is nothing like the smell of fresh baby to make me feel like all is right with the world.
I am thankful for downtime and for a precious, fresh baby who loves her bath! And for Granna who took these pictures a few weeks ago!
Tuesday, April 12, 2011 Blessing #340
Today I attended a funeral of a dear friend of our family. Specifically, the Grandfather of my husband's brother in law, Don. I have know Don a long time--since we were in physical therapy together 15 years ago. His daughter, Karen, set Trey and I up on our first date. His Grandson, Kasey, is a fabulous husband to my sister-in-law Courtni. (On a side note, Trey, Courtni, Kasey, and I all went to high school together)
The funeral was such a blessing. Oh, sure, there were tears, but there was also joy. Joy that Don lived and loved--that he knew he was loved by God--and that he modeled faith and love for all those in his family. He was a good, gentle man--his love for his wife and all that resulted from it made the world better. Today I am thankful for Don--and for all those who have loved before making my life possible.
Wednesday, April 13, 2011 Blessing #341
I love being able to put my baby in the stroller and head out to exercise. It makes me feel so good! Our neighborhood is full of walkers, so I also get ample opportunity to show her off. We spend time talking about the flowers, the birds, the beautiful blue sky (are you all cracking up right now imagining me talking to baby who can't talk back? Well, I talk ALL the time and she is such a good listener!)
Anyway--today I am thankful that I am healthy, that the weather is allowing me to be in the sun, and that my mind and body are reaping the benefits of exercise.
Thursday, April 14, 2011 Blessing #342
Almost as healthy as a horse! I saw my OB today and was pronounced fit as a fiddle. I'm still a tad anemic, but that is on its way to right, but other than that things are great. I can't believe Henslee is 6 weeks old already. The time has come to try and introduce a bottle--not because I'm going to stop nursing, but to allow for occasional separation. Here's hoping that goes well! Anyway, other parents know 6 weeks is a milestone--and Henslee and I made it!
Friday, April 15, 2011 Blessing #343
I love that it is tax day and my taxes have been done for weeks! I am not famous for working ahead--especially on tedious tasks, but on this we got our stuff together. It helps a ton that I'm on leave, so I was able to just pop into the accountant's office during regular business hours. I am amazed at all I can accomplish with time off (even though I'm nursing the equivalent of a full time job every day!). Pictures of the kids, eye check ups, I have scheduled car service, pest control, air conditioner tune ups....and managed to fix yummy meals most nights. I know that part of what is great about working is making money---but part of what is great about not working is saving money on convenience meals and eating out. I am able to save that money because I have to THINK about ingredients, preparation, menu planning. I am grateful for this change of pace--and for all I'm learning about ways to fix easy, inexpensive meals that I can still do when I'm back at work. I miss teaching--but I am blessed to have this window of flexibility in my schedule that provides for time to marvel at my baby and time to think about what will make our lives easier and less expensive later.
Saturday, April 16, 2011 Blessing #344
Happy Festival Day! Today was the annual PSO fundraiser on campus. We've not been to one yet usually b/c of soccer or family doings--but I am so glad we went this time and we won't miss it again. It was a blast for the kids and grown ups. Chip and Katie started us off with a Pre School/Lower School performance of awesome music (Bon Jovi and Journey!). There were inflatables, dunking booths, yummy snacks, and fellowship. It was just a feel good, fun, collection of parenting moments. I was thrilled to have my husband there with us and to watch my children laugh with their friends in that community they love. We are so blessed to be a part of Athens Academy!
Monday, April 11, 2011 Blessing # 339
It was fabulous to wake up at home today--and to not have to put Henslee in the car seat. I feel like the poor thing was cooped up all weekend in that seat while Mom and I were at the conference. I had no idea how exhausted that trip would make me--even though I had a blast making memories. It was a lot--hiking hills and toting this baby and all her gear. I am feeling stronger, but I got pretty anemic at the end of my pregnancy, and it takes a long time to recover from that. So, today, I am beat. I am thrilled to sit on the couch and stare at and cuddle with my baby--Oh, and I'm going to give her a bath to get the travel grime off. There is nothing like the smell of fresh baby to make me feel like all is right with the world.
I am thankful for downtime and for a precious, fresh baby who loves her bath! And for Granna who took these pictures a few weeks ago!
Tuesday, April 12, 2011 Blessing #340
Today I attended a funeral of a dear friend of our family. Specifically, the Grandfather of my husband's brother in law, Don. I have know Don a long time--since we were in physical therapy together 15 years ago. His daughter, Karen, set Trey and I up on our first date. His Grandson, Kasey, is a fabulous husband to my sister-in-law Courtni. (On a side note, Trey, Courtni, Kasey, and I all went to high school together)
The funeral was such a blessing. Oh, sure, there were tears, but there was also joy. Joy that Don lived and loved--that he knew he was loved by God--and that he modeled faith and love for all those in his family. He was a good, gentle man--his love for his wife and all that resulted from it made the world better. Today I am thankful for Don--and for all those who have loved before making my life possible.
Wednesday, April 13, 2011 Blessing #341
I love being able to put my baby in the stroller and head out to exercise. It makes me feel so good! Our neighborhood is full of walkers, so I also get ample opportunity to show her off. We spend time talking about the flowers, the birds, the beautiful blue sky (are you all cracking up right now imagining me talking to baby who can't talk back? Well, I talk ALL the time and she is such a good listener!)
Anyway--today I am thankful that I am healthy, that the weather is allowing me to be in the sun, and that my mind and body are reaping the benefits of exercise.
Thursday, April 14, 2011 Blessing #342
Almost as healthy as a horse! I saw my OB today and was pronounced fit as a fiddle. I'm still a tad anemic, but that is on its way to right, but other than that things are great. I can't believe Henslee is 6 weeks old already. The time has come to try and introduce a bottle--not because I'm going to stop nursing, but to allow for occasional separation. Here's hoping that goes well! Anyway, other parents know 6 weeks is a milestone--and Henslee and I made it!
Friday, April 15, 2011 Blessing #343
I love that it is tax day and my taxes have been done for weeks! I am not famous for working ahead--especially on tedious tasks, but on this we got our stuff together. It helps a ton that I'm on leave, so I was able to just pop into the accountant's office during regular business hours. I am amazed at all I can accomplish with time off (even though I'm nursing the equivalent of a full time job every day!). Pictures of the kids, eye check ups, I have scheduled car service, pest control, air conditioner tune ups....and managed to fix yummy meals most nights. I know that part of what is great about working is making money---but part of what is great about not working is saving money on convenience meals and eating out. I am able to save that money because I have to THINK about ingredients, preparation, menu planning. I am grateful for this change of pace--and for all I'm learning about ways to fix easy, inexpensive meals that I can still do when I'm back at work. I miss teaching--but I am blessed to have this window of flexibility in my schedule that provides for time to marvel at my baby and time to think about what will make our lives easier and less expensive later.
Saturday, April 16, 2011 Blessing #344
Happy Festival Day! Today was the annual PSO fundraiser on campus. We've not been to one yet usually b/c of soccer or family doings--but I am so glad we went this time and we won't miss it again. It was a blast for the kids and grown ups. Chip and Katie started us off with a Pre School/Lower School performance of awesome music (Bon Jovi and Journey!). There were inflatables, dunking booths, yummy snacks, and fellowship. It was just a feel good, fun, collection of parenting moments. I was thrilled to have my husband there with us and to watch my children laugh with their friends in that community they love. We are so blessed to be a part of Athens Academy!
Tuesday, April 19, 2011
Still Catching Up!
Saturday, April 9, 2011 Blessing #337
I have my Mom all to myself! We have laughed so much already this weekend--and that is really saying something, given that finding and settling into our accommodations was a nightmare. After we got on campus, we realized due to a communication error that we were slotted to be in a cabin with students from other high schools. Clearly, with me nursing every 3 hours, this wasn't going to do. So, we began looking for a hotel (parked on the Berry campus, with me nursing in the back seat!), and couldn't find one with a vacancy within 30 miles from the school. I couldn't believe it--Rome is famous for not having much going on except when Berry or Shorter are having a graduation. I love Interact, but there is no way it has filled up every hotel! So, we ended up at a Holiday Inn in Cedartown (in their last room--really? It is a one horse town!) at Midnight. It took an hour to get checked in, and then I began unloading the truck. Because of the pack and play it took another half hour. Finally at 2:00 am we were in bed. Henslee never missed a beat--in fact, she slept straight through it--it was the first night she went from 10:30 until 5:30 without feeding--but a lot of good it did me, traipsing all over creation lugging a pack and play at just 5 weeks post partum.
I have a chronic issue with over extending myself. You know, saying, "oh, we'll just go! with the new baby" several months ago didn't seem like such a big deal until I was crashing into bed at 2am. Promising to be grateful everyday for a year didn't seem like a stretch either--but it is tough and has required major discipline. I mean, in the throws of the mess last night and early this morning, it is my job to find the blessing.
Well, here it is--Mom and I will never forget that! (kind of like that time we spent Dad's emergency money on lingerie in FLA). We laughed until our sides hurt, and had it all gone according to plan it wouldn't have been nearly as special. So I'm thankful I woke up in a bed--thankful my Mom is here to help me navigate this craziness--and thankful I love my work with Interact Club enough to commit to it in the first place!
Sunday, April 10, 2011 Blessing #338
Oh, my back hurts! But we are home and I am so glad. It was a wonderful weekend. Watching young people celebrate service is a fabulous past time. It was great to visit with the Rotarians who support their work, and I will cherish the memories I made with Mom. But now, I am thankful for a safe trip home--and that tonight I will sleep in my bed (for however long Henslee allows it!) Oh, and the District Interact Chair informed me they were making a gift to Bethlehem Ministry in my honor. That made me pretty happy!
I have my Mom all to myself! We have laughed so much already this weekend--and that is really saying something, given that finding and settling into our accommodations was a nightmare. After we got on campus, we realized due to a communication error that we were slotted to be in a cabin with students from other high schools. Clearly, with me nursing every 3 hours, this wasn't going to do. So, we began looking for a hotel (parked on the Berry campus, with me nursing in the back seat!), and couldn't find one with a vacancy within 30 miles from the school. I couldn't believe it--Rome is famous for not having much going on except when Berry or Shorter are having a graduation. I love Interact, but there is no way it has filled up every hotel! So, we ended up at a Holiday Inn in Cedartown (in their last room--really? It is a one horse town!) at Midnight. It took an hour to get checked in, and then I began unloading the truck. Because of the pack and play it took another half hour. Finally at 2:00 am we were in bed. Henslee never missed a beat--in fact, she slept straight through it--it was the first night she went from 10:30 until 5:30 without feeding--but a lot of good it did me, traipsing all over creation lugging a pack and play at just 5 weeks post partum.
I have a chronic issue with over extending myself. You know, saying, "oh, we'll just go! with the new baby" several months ago didn't seem like such a big deal until I was crashing into bed at 2am. Promising to be grateful everyday for a year didn't seem like a stretch either--but it is tough and has required major discipline. I mean, in the throws of the mess last night and early this morning, it is my job to find the blessing.
Well, here it is--Mom and I will never forget that! (kind of like that time we spent Dad's emergency money on lingerie in FLA). We laughed until our sides hurt, and had it all gone according to plan it wouldn't have been nearly as special. So I'm thankful I woke up in a bed--thankful my Mom is here to help me navigate this craziness--and thankful I love my work with Interact Club enough to commit to it in the first place!
Sunday, April 10, 2011 Blessing #338
Oh, my back hurts! But we are home and I am so glad. It was a wonderful weekend. Watching young people celebrate service is a fabulous past time. It was great to visit with the Rotarians who support their work, and I will cherish the memories I made with Mom. But now, I am thankful for a safe trip home--and that tonight I will sleep in my bed (for however long Henslee allows it!) Oh, and the District Interact Chair informed me they were making a gift to Bethlehem Ministry in my honor. That made me pretty happy!
Monday, April 18, 2011
A Whole lot of Thanking Going On
Tuesday, April 5, 2011 Blessing #333
I kept Chip out this morning, so we could get his left eye checked out. The pediatrician has noticed it is a bit weaker than his right, and I figured I should get it seen about while I'm on leave. It was a riot. I overslept, so Katie missed the bus. That meant I had all 3 kids in the room with the opthalmologist. (not too mention the skit the kids put on in the waiting room with Katie's toy horses) At one point, I was nursing, Katie was rolling on the Dr.'s stool, and Henslee was pooping all over her clothes and blanket. I suppose it sank in--my life will never be the same! The good news is Chip's eye is fine. No glasses yet, which is great, because I can't imagine managing one more thing. Anyway--I was tense and frustrated. But I was forced by this exercise in gratitude to find the blessing--and I know that I am fortunate that my family has access to healthcare.
Wednesday, April 6, 2011 Blessing #334
I took Chip to meet Trey for practice tonight, and that means I got to have time with just my girls. Katie is marvelous. She is fiesty--don't get me wrong--and difficult and stubborn. But the girl is going places. She has been amazing with Henslee (even if a little ill with Mommy), and I love watching her come into her own. She has an artist's eye-which she must have gotten from her Dad. She lives to change her clothes and wear outlandish outfits. She is an genius at interpersonal skills and can get anyone to do just about anything she wants. This girl is such an individual, and I can't wait to see her impact on the world.
Thursday, April 7, 2011 Blessing #335
So, I have been looking pretty rough. Way to much gray hair for my age. It is the one thing about pregnancy, I don't love. Sure, my hair gets thick and shiny, but it also gets grey. After this third pregnancy, I have so much gray I will have to pull out the big guns to cover it up! So, that's where I headed today...Shannon Salon and Spa...and I left feeling like a new person. I feel so shallow saying it, but getting my hair done today really put a spring in my step. Plus, I got to catch up with Shannon and show off my new baby. It was great that today I got to do something just for me--and I know it seems small, but I am all about being thankful for hair color!
Friday, April 8, 2011 Blessing #336
Today I took a road trip with my Mom, my friend and colleague Julie, Baby Henslee, and MacKinsey and Aashni (two students). We headed through the Gate of Opportunity at Berry College for the District Interact Club Conference (if I haven't mentioned it, I love Rotary--and Interact is the high school version--I sponsor it at the Academy) . I graduated from Berry in 1999, and my 4 years there were special beyond the telling. I learned so much about myself and about Biology. The campus is incredible--the views, the fragrances--and the feelings I get when I pull onto campus are so strong! It just hit me so hard as we pulled through the gate that I am so grateful for the opportunity I had to study there. I am inspired by that place and by the legacy of Martha Berry. I thank God, and my parents, for making that inspiration possible.
I kept Chip out this morning, so we could get his left eye checked out. The pediatrician has noticed it is a bit weaker than his right, and I figured I should get it seen about while I'm on leave. It was a riot. I overslept, so Katie missed the bus. That meant I had all 3 kids in the room with the opthalmologist. (not too mention the skit the kids put on in the waiting room with Katie's toy horses) At one point, I was nursing, Katie was rolling on the Dr.'s stool, and Henslee was pooping all over her clothes and blanket. I suppose it sank in--my life will never be the same! The good news is Chip's eye is fine. No glasses yet, which is great, because I can't imagine managing one more thing. Anyway--I was tense and frustrated. But I was forced by this exercise in gratitude to find the blessing--and I know that I am fortunate that my family has access to healthcare.
Wednesday, April 6, 2011 Blessing #334
I took Chip to meet Trey for practice tonight, and that means I got to have time with just my girls. Katie is marvelous. She is fiesty--don't get me wrong--and difficult and stubborn. But the girl is going places. She has been amazing with Henslee (even if a little ill with Mommy), and I love watching her come into her own. She has an artist's eye-which she must have gotten from her Dad. She lives to change her clothes and wear outlandish outfits. She is an genius at interpersonal skills and can get anyone to do just about anything she wants. This girl is such an individual, and I can't wait to see her impact on the world.
Thursday, April 7, 2011 Blessing #335
So, I have been looking pretty rough. Way to much gray hair for my age. It is the one thing about pregnancy, I don't love. Sure, my hair gets thick and shiny, but it also gets grey. After this third pregnancy, I have so much gray I will have to pull out the big guns to cover it up! So, that's where I headed today...Shannon Salon and Spa...and I left feeling like a new person. I feel so shallow saying it, but getting my hair done today really put a spring in my step. Plus, I got to catch up with Shannon and show off my new baby. It was great that today I got to do something just for me--and I know it seems small, but I am all about being thankful for hair color!
Friday, April 8, 2011 Blessing #336
Today I took a road trip with my Mom, my friend and colleague Julie, Baby Henslee, and MacKinsey and Aashni (two students). We headed through the Gate of Opportunity at Berry College for the District Interact Club Conference (if I haven't mentioned it, I love Rotary--and Interact is the high school version--I sponsor it at the Academy) . I graduated from Berry in 1999, and my 4 years there were special beyond the telling. I learned so much about myself and about Biology. The campus is incredible--the views, the fragrances--and the feelings I get when I pull onto campus are so strong! It just hit me so hard as we pulled through the gate that I am so grateful for the opportunity I had to study there. I am inspired by that place and by the legacy of Martha Berry. I thank God, and my parents, for making that inspiration possible.
Eveyln Paris
Monday, April 4, 2011 Blessing #332
This is my Grandmother's birthday--Eveyln Paris Watson. She died when I was pregnant with Chip. I remember so much about her. She had a wonderful zest for life, an infectious laugh, and a serious sweet tooth. She loved her children fiercely, and was carried away with her Grandkids too. Today I am thinking about all the good that is in the world because she loved my Grandfather. I wish she could see me be a Mom and know my children--but mostly I am thankful that I knew her.
This is my Grandmother's birthday--Eveyln Paris Watson. She died when I was pregnant with Chip. I remember so much about her. She had a wonderful zest for life, an infectious laugh, and a serious sweet tooth. She loved her children fiercely, and was carried away with her Grandkids too. Today I am thinking about all the good that is in the world because she loved my Grandfather. I wish she could see me be a Mom and know my children--but mostly I am thankful that I knew her.
Sunday, April 17, 2011
See My Miracle
Thursday, March 31, 2011 Blessing #328
Look at her--the blessing is easy today!
I know that it is a miracle that I am able to have a happy, healthy baby with a man I adore. Thank you, God, for this gift.
Friday, April 1, 2011 Blessing #329
Henslee had her one month check up today. She is happy and healthy. I can't help but think about the mothers who try to conceive-and can't, or the mothers without access to health care who lose their lives during delivery, or the mothers who lose their babies to preventable diseases, and I thank God. So, I'm tired. My life with three children is crazy. We owe a ton of money and have barely any in savings. I am rich beyond measure in all the ways that matter!
Saturday, April 2, 2011 Blessing #330
Soccer and the Farm--two of my favorite things all in one day! The weather was perfect for a day spent outside and Mom made meat loaf. I am so thankful that my parents are close enough that we can pop over sometimes--and get a little taste of home. The farm was gorgeous--and I feel like Henslee arrived and brought spring time with her. Everywhere I looked today I saw signs of life, hope, and joy. What a gift!
Sunday, April 3, 2011 Blessing #331
Talk about a comedy of errors. We were up in time to get to church--in fact we were dressed for Sunday School. Then, Henslee had to nurse before we got there. So, we decided to feed her, go out to breakfast, and then head to church. Well, our breakfast out was a nightmare--no place to sit, late getting fed, etc, and long story short, we were all dressed up and never made it to church. The blessing--I didn't even get upset! Me, the type A control freak--I mean, we did our best! It just wasn't in the cards. The more experience (and children) I have, the more I realize how little I actually control. You know, it is very freeing to give up that illusion and learn to roll with things. I'm thankful I can't be in charge of it all.....and grateful for the faith I have in the One who is.
Look at her--the blessing is easy today!
I know that it is a miracle that I am able to have a happy, healthy baby with a man I adore. Thank you, God, for this gift.
Friday, April 1, 2011 Blessing #329
Henslee had her one month check up today. She is happy and healthy. I can't help but think about the mothers who try to conceive-and can't, or the mothers without access to health care who lose their lives during delivery, or the mothers who lose their babies to preventable diseases, and I thank God. So, I'm tired. My life with three children is crazy. We owe a ton of money and have barely any in savings. I am rich beyond measure in all the ways that matter!
Saturday, April 2, 2011 Blessing #330
Soccer and the Farm--two of my favorite things all in one day! The weather was perfect for a day spent outside and Mom made meat loaf. I am so thankful that my parents are close enough that we can pop over sometimes--and get a little taste of home. The farm was gorgeous--and I feel like Henslee arrived and brought spring time with her. Everywhere I looked today I saw signs of life, hope, and joy. What a gift!
Sunday, April 3, 2011 Blessing #331
Talk about a comedy of errors. We were up in time to get to church--in fact we were dressed for Sunday School. Then, Henslee had to nurse before we got there. So, we decided to feed her, go out to breakfast, and then head to church. Well, our breakfast out was a nightmare--no place to sit, late getting fed, etc, and long story short, we were all dressed up and never made it to church. The blessing--I didn't even get upset! Me, the type A control freak--I mean, we did our best! It just wasn't in the cards. The more experience (and children) I have, the more I realize how little I actually control. You know, it is very freeing to give up that illusion and learn to roll with things. I'm thankful I can't be in charge of it all.....and grateful for the faith I have in the One who is.
Friday, April 15, 2011
Blessings X 3
Sunday March 27, 2011 Blessing #324
A rainy, dreary family day is just what the doctor ordered. Sometimes you just need to slow down and enjoy being with each other--without having to hurry to the next place, or plan for the next event. Today was that for our family, and it felt good.
Monday March 28, 2011 Blessing #325
By some miracle, I mangaged to get the kids fed and the homework complete before piano. That's no small feat, but I would be remiss if I didn't admit that there was bribery involved. Nothing gets the kids motivated to eat and work like the promise of milkshakes on the way home from piano.
Speaking of milkshakes--I have never been this hungry. Nursing makes me famished! It is wild that I have gone from growing a baby inside of me to growing one on the outside--and I need even more calories than when I was pregnant. It just has me thinking--what if I couldn't get enough to eat? What if I didn't have access to healthy food that I need to make good milk for Henslee? There is a powerful scene in the novel Pillars of the Earth when a pregnant Mom is malnourished-she later dies in childbirth. It happens all the time in Haiti and other improvished nations--and I know it happens closer to home as well. I can't imagine the horror of not being able to provide for my children. Today I am so thankful that I have plenty to eat--that I can feed my family (including Henslee!).
Wednesday March 30, 2011 Blessing #327
Granna is back! She is feeling better--and the kids are so excited to spend time with her. We had an incredible meal at LOCOS, watched a movie, and just enjoyed being together. I am so glad she get to have to some special time with Henslee-her namesake. It is a great thing, the way a new baby brings the family together. I have gotten to see so much of the people I love! This baby is not even a month old--and she has already given so much to our family by brining us all together.
A rainy, dreary family day is just what the doctor ordered. Sometimes you just need to slow down and enjoy being with each other--without having to hurry to the next place, or plan for the next event. Today was that for our family, and it felt good.
Monday March 28, 2011 Blessing #325
By some miracle, I mangaged to get the kids fed and the homework complete before piano. That's no small feat, but I would be remiss if I didn't admit that there was bribery involved. Nothing gets the kids motivated to eat and work like the promise of milkshakes on the way home from piano.
Speaking of milkshakes--I have never been this hungry. Nursing makes me famished! It is wild that I have gone from growing a baby inside of me to growing one on the outside--and I need even more calories than when I was pregnant. It just has me thinking--what if I couldn't get enough to eat? What if I didn't have access to healthy food that I need to make good milk for Henslee? There is a powerful scene in the novel Pillars of the Earth when a pregnant Mom is malnourished-she later dies in childbirth. It happens all the time in Haiti and other improvished nations--and I know it happens closer to home as well. I can't imagine the horror of not being able to provide for my children. Today I am so thankful that I have plenty to eat--that I can feed my family (including Henslee!).
Wednesday March 30, 2011 Blessing #327
Granna is back! She is feeling better--and the kids are so excited to spend time with her. We had an incredible meal at LOCOS, watched a movie, and just enjoyed being together. I am so glad she get to have to some special time with Henslee-her namesake. It is a great thing, the way a new baby brings the family together. I have gotten to see so much of the people I love! This baby is not even a month old--and she has already given so much to our family by brining us all together.
Tuesday, April 12, 2011
4 more
Wednesday March 23, Blessing #320
Mom is here! A great thing about a new baby is the way it brings the family together. My Mom came yesterday and spent the night with me for my birthday. It is wonderful to wake with her here. I know lots of ladies who wouldn't count time with their Mom as a blessing--the time was a blessing, and the fact that I think that is an even bigger one.
Thursday March 24, Blessing #321
Every article of clothing--except those that are on my family members--is clean! When Chip was born, I joined a local branch of the National Mothers' Center. In my new Moms, new babies group, I heard a real pearl of wisdom from a Mom with a several month old baby (to me, with a baby at just a few weeks old, she seemed like a real sage). The pearl went something like this: "just be happy if you can accomplish one thing other than caring for your baby--maybe it's a shower, maybe it's the laundry--but just one thing. That way you can't be disappointed and if you get more than that done it's icing!" Well, today I got icing....every single item of clothing is clean and put away. What a feeling....I think I will just sit here with my feet up and be thankful for a sleeping baby, an automatic washer and dryer, and my newly organized closets. It just feels yummy....
Friday March 25, 2011 Blessing #322
Simultaneous play dates are the way to go! What a great day--Chip and Katie brought friends home with them on the bus for a couple of hours. As a working Mom, I don't get to do enough play dates--I always feel like I'm behind reciprocating, so the school bus and this time at home are providing an opportunity to fix it. They felt so special bringing Matthew and Caitlyn home--I ordered a cheeze pizza, which is always a big hit, and it was just a lovely afternoon. I pretty much get heralded as Mom of the year when I set stuff like this up, so I'm going to have to do it more often.
Then Trey and I had a birthday date (with Henslee, of course)--we went to the movies and saw The Lincoln Lawyer. It was a great movie--one of those I think I need to watch again to make sure I got it. It was wonderful to be out with my husband (Henslee pretty much slept and ate, they are so easy to tote at this age!). I am blessed that my children have friends, and that they are proud to show them their home. I am blessed that my husband wants to take me out for my birthday and that my baby let it happen!
Saturday March 26, 2011 Blessing #323
You win some, you lose some, and some get rained out! Thankfully today was a rain out. It is like stumbling across found time. That translated into awesome time for reading on my fabulous birthday present. I love my Kindle! All the books I want in one place--no bulky bags for traveling--a real green way to enjoy all that I want to read. I have already started a Ken Robinson book and a Thomas Sowell book. And I can use my kindle to shop for other books--anywhere there is wireless. I am in heaven. Oh, and how about that Trey gave me the kindle with books from my "to read' list already on it! What a gift and what a man!
Mom is here! A great thing about a new baby is the way it brings the family together. My Mom came yesterday and spent the night with me for my birthday. It is wonderful to wake with her here. I know lots of ladies who wouldn't count time with their Mom as a blessing--the time was a blessing, and the fact that I think that is an even bigger one.
Thursday March 24, Blessing #321
Every article of clothing--except those that are on my family members--is clean! When Chip was born, I joined a local branch of the National Mothers' Center. In my new Moms, new babies group, I heard a real pearl of wisdom from a Mom with a several month old baby (to me, with a baby at just a few weeks old, she seemed like a real sage). The pearl went something like this: "just be happy if you can accomplish one thing other than caring for your baby--maybe it's a shower, maybe it's the laundry--but just one thing. That way you can't be disappointed and if you get more than that done it's icing!" Well, today I got icing....every single item of clothing is clean and put away. What a feeling....I think I will just sit here with my feet up and be thankful for a sleeping baby, an automatic washer and dryer, and my newly organized closets. It just feels yummy....
Friday March 25, 2011 Blessing #322
Simultaneous play dates are the way to go! What a great day--Chip and Katie brought friends home with them on the bus for a couple of hours. As a working Mom, I don't get to do enough play dates--I always feel like I'm behind reciprocating, so the school bus and this time at home are providing an opportunity to fix it. They felt so special bringing Matthew and Caitlyn home--I ordered a cheeze pizza, which is always a big hit, and it was just a lovely afternoon. I pretty much get heralded as Mom of the year when I set stuff like this up, so I'm going to have to do it more often.
Then Trey and I had a birthday date (with Henslee, of course)--we went to the movies and saw The Lincoln Lawyer. It was a great movie--one of those I think I need to watch again to make sure I got it. It was wonderful to be out with my husband (Henslee pretty much slept and ate, they are so easy to tote at this age!). I am blessed that my children have friends, and that they are proud to show them their home. I am blessed that my husband wants to take me out for my birthday and that my baby let it happen!
Saturday March 26, 2011 Blessing #323
You win some, you lose some, and some get rained out! Thankfully today was a rain out. It is like stumbling across found time. That translated into awesome time for reading on my fabulous birthday present. I love my Kindle! All the books I want in one place--no bulky bags for traveling--a real green way to enjoy all that I want to read. I have already started a Ken Robinson book and a Thomas Sowell book. And I can use my kindle to shop for other books--anywhere there is wireless. I am in heaven. Oh, and how about that Trey gave me the kindle with books from my "to read' list already on it! What a gift and what a man!
Tuesday, April 5, 2011
Meetings, Meetings, Soccer Snacks, Walmart, Rotary, 34!
Thursday March 17, 2011 Blessing #314
Back at work today! Isn't that crazy? I'm not back teaching full time, but I did need to meet with teachers at a local high school for my work at UGA. Fortunately, it is work that is very papoose friendly so Henslee could stay with me, while Chip and Katie stayed home with my Mom. It was wonderful to be back in a science classrom--and it was wonderful to show my baby girl off. I was anxious about how I might be received--our society isn't exactly papoose oriented (it should be you know, don't get me started)--but the women I met with applauded me for my decision to keep my baby with me whenever possible.
Then, I met with my long term sub--she came to my house, which was awesome. She is so so good, so earnest, and so thorough--it is hugely relaxing to know that my kids at the Academy are well taken care of. Again, I'm just feeling more and more normal--like I'm settling in and finally able to be productive and not just reproductive (hee hee---only a science teacher).
I'm blessed to have a family and work to fulfill me!
Friday, March 18, 2011 Blessing #315
Another meeting at another high school today! And a yummy dinner. My friend and colleague brought over a fabulous lasagna (part without noodles for me!) and picked Katie up for extra special play time. I dropped Chip at my sisters and headed to my meeting. I loved being back around teenagers. Oh, I know that I am where I am supposed to be with my baby, but it is wonderful to know that I miss teaching too. Hopefully, I will feel ready when it is time to go back. Today, I am thankful for lasagna and teenagers.
Saturday, March 19, 2011 Blessing #316
I didn't get to see Katie's game today. I tried so hard, but first I had to nurse and dress myself and the baby. Then Henslee and I had to stop and get snacks for her team. We strolled up to the soccer field just as the game was being called early (because the other team was crying--soccer and 4 and 5 year olds is an interesting combo). So, before Chip's team started, I had to nurse again. I love to nurse, but Henslee and I are stiill at the phase where it is hard to do it in public. There is so much milk and she is a pretty noisy eater, so I opt for nursing the car where it is nice and quiet and I don't have to worry about spraying any soccer enthusiasts with milk. While I'm nursing in the car, she spits up and soaks both our clothes, and then poos a giant mess all out of her diaper.
Well, I was afraid Katie would be devestated--but turns out her favorite part of the experience is snack anyway. So as far as she was concerned I made it to all the important stuff--even though I missed her first goal. Funny how parents get worked up over things--and kids have a whole diffferent idea of what matters. There is something special about her Mom being team Mom for the day and showing up with juice boxes and granola bars that communicates to Katie her own importance--importance to me, and maybe importance to her peers. Anyway, thank God I got the snack and made it in time.
Sunday, March 20, 2011 Blessing #317
Oh, I went shopping at Walmart! All by myself (I'm hearing the Celine Dion song now!). It was so great--I was so productive and efficient-well right up until I was the last in a long line behind the ONLY open register. I don't get it. Why have a 100 registers if you aren't going to use them all? Or at least more than one!!
Anyway, I picked up floor mats, place mats, milk storage bags, and a birthday gift for our neighbor, Monroe. Chip and Katie are headed to her party this afternoon. It was wonderful to mark some things off the list and do it so simply and easily. So today I am thankful for Trey who hung with all 3 kids while I ran an errand and enjoyed feeling so free--even though I was ready to nuzzle that baby as soon as I got home!
Monday, March 21, 2011 Blessing #318
Henslee and I headed to the Rotary meeting today. It was so amazing--I watched my officers give an incredible program about Intearct's year in review. I've been out, so they had no guidance from me to speak of. They prepared and delivered an engaging, fabulous presentation and wowed everyone. Including their sponsor! I am so pleased to see them shine--and so happy that they have taken such ownership of the service our club engages in. I work with amazing young people, and it is so gratifying to see them mature and progress as leaders. Oh, and Henslee didn't even make a peep!
Tuesday, March 22, 2011 Blessing #319
34 years old! I can't believe it---but here it is, my birthday. Well, today I am thankful for that proverbial sparkle in my parents' eyes. I still feel like a kid-and when I think of my life-even of just what the last decade of it has involved, I can't believe how much has happened. Marriage, kids, home buying, graduate degrees--it's a wonder I'm not exhausted. Oh, wait, I am exhausted--but it is a wonderful tired that comes after doing good and purposeful work. My life is fabulous--I am thankful for every second of it, and so hopeful that it makes the world better in some small way.
Back at work today! Isn't that crazy? I'm not back teaching full time, but I did need to meet with teachers at a local high school for my work at UGA. Fortunately, it is work that is very papoose friendly so Henslee could stay with me, while Chip and Katie stayed home with my Mom. It was wonderful to be back in a science classrom--and it was wonderful to show my baby girl off. I was anxious about how I might be received--our society isn't exactly papoose oriented (it should be you know, don't get me started)--but the women I met with applauded me for my decision to keep my baby with me whenever possible.
Then, I met with my long term sub--she came to my house, which was awesome. She is so so good, so earnest, and so thorough--it is hugely relaxing to know that my kids at the Academy are well taken care of. Again, I'm just feeling more and more normal--like I'm settling in and finally able to be productive and not just reproductive (hee hee---only a science teacher).
I'm blessed to have a family and work to fulfill me!
Friday, March 18, 2011 Blessing #315
Another meeting at another high school today! And a yummy dinner. My friend and colleague brought over a fabulous lasagna (part without noodles for me!) and picked Katie up for extra special play time. I dropped Chip at my sisters and headed to my meeting. I loved being back around teenagers. Oh, I know that I am where I am supposed to be with my baby, but it is wonderful to know that I miss teaching too. Hopefully, I will feel ready when it is time to go back. Today, I am thankful for lasagna and teenagers.
Saturday, March 19, 2011 Blessing #316
I didn't get to see Katie's game today. I tried so hard, but first I had to nurse and dress myself and the baby. Then Henslee and I had to stop and get snacks for her team. We strolled up to the soccer field just as the game was being called early (because the other team was crying--soccer and 4 and 5 year olds is an interesting combo). So, before Chip's team started, I had to nurse again. I love to nurse, but Henslee and I are stiill at the phase where it is hard to do it in public. There is so much milk and she is a pretty noisy eater, so I opt for nursing the car where it is nice and quiet and I don't have to worry about spraying any soccer enthusiasts with milk. While I'm nursing in the car, she spits up and soaks both our clothes, and then poos a giant mess all out of her diaper.
Well, I was afraid Katie would be devestated--but turns out her favorite part of the experience is snack anyway. So as far as she was concerned I made it to all the important stuff--even though I missed her first goal. Funny how parents get worked up over things--and kids have a whole diffferent idea of what matters. There is something special about her Mom being team Mom for the day and showing up with juice boxes and granola bars that communicates to Katie her own importance--importance to me, and maybe importance to her peers. Anyway, thank God I got the snack and made it in time.
Sunday, March 20, 2011 Blessing #317
Oh, I went shopping at Walmart! All by myself (I'm hearing the Celine Dion song now!). It was so great--I was so productive and efficient-well right up until I was the last in a long line behind the ONLY open register. I don't get it. Why have a 100 registers if you aren't going to use them all? Or at least more than one!!
Anyway, I picked up floor mats, place mats, milk storage bags, and a birthday gift for our neighbor, Monroe. Chip and Katie are headed to her party this afternoon. It was wonderful to mark some things off the list and do it so simply and easily. So today I am thankful for Trey who hung with all 3 kids while I ran an errand and enjoyed feeling so free--even though I was ready to nuzzle that baby as soon as I got home!
Monday, March 21, 2011 Blessing #318
Henslee and I headed to the Rotary meeting today. It was so amazing--I watched my officers give an incredible program about Intearct's year in review. I've been out, so they had no guidance from me to speak of. They prepared and delivered an engaging, fabulous presentation and wowed everyone. Including their sponsor! I am so pleased to see them shine--and so happy that they have taken such ownership of the service our club engages in. I work with amazing young people, and it is so gratifying to see them mature and progress as leaders. Oh, and Henslee didn't even make a peep!
Tuesday, March 22, 2011 Blessing #319
34 years old! I can't believe it---but here it is, my birthday. Well, today I am thankful for that proverbial sparkle in my parents' eyes. I still feel like a kid-and when I think of my life-even of just what the last decade of it has involved, I can't believe how much has happened. Marriage, kids, home buying, graduate degrees--it's a wonder I'm not exhausted. Oh, wait, I am exhausted--but it is a wonderful tired that comes after doing good and purposeful work. My life is fabulous--I am thankful for every second of it, and so hopeful that it makes the world better in some small way.
Friday, April 1, 2011
Spring Breaking it!
Monday, March 14, 2011 Blessing #311
I have been terrified about this week. Spring break--3 kids at home, no adults, and no money to spend on entertainment. However, today was fabulous. Chip and Katie are thrilled to have a break and they are loving playing outside. it was great to have a break from packing lunches and hurrying to get ready for the bus. I think I forget sometimes just how nice it is to have breaks in the school year--you know, teachers work hard and often don't get credit for it. In fact, folks say things like, "how nice to be a teacher and have all that time off," as if this gig is a walk in the park. The truth is the breaks are fabulous--and we need them. We need them to stay creative, stay positive, and stay patient with children. And the kids need breaks--time to decompress, play outside, and just be kids. It is a blessing that today we had that time.
Tuesday, March 15, 2011 Blessing #312
I am so thankful for neighbors! My neighbors Merryn and Judy stopped by this morning to pick up Chip and Katie and take them on an outing with some other kids from the neighborhood. As great as yesterday was with all 3 kids, today it is raining. And all 3 inside all day is too much for anyone--especially a Mom with a new baby. It was wonderful for them to have a diversion--and then Granna came and brought a yummy dinner with chicken and alfredo sauce. So, I'm sounding a bit like a broken record, but well--the truth is, I am healthy, I have a healthy baby, and friends and family who loves us and support us. What a blessing.
Wednesday, March 16, 2011 Blessing #313
The schedule really picked up today--and I am so impressed we got it all done! Granna hung out with the kids this morning (creating beautiful artwork) while I ran to the store. Henslee had another visit with the Dr.--she is gaining wonderfully, and her bilirubin isn't getting any higher. Then, the kids and I took Granna to Trey's work (Athens Orthopedic Clinic) for an MRI so we can figure out why she is having such leg pain. We made it to all of that on time! And then Chip and Trey headed to soccer practice. It is wonderful to end the day feeling I really accomplished a lot. On the one hand, I know that nursing a baby every 2.5 hours for 40 minutes at a time is a lot--really a full time job in itself--but it is still nice to get other things seen to. And my Mom comes tonight! I love that I am seeing so much of my family.
I have been terrified about this week. Spring break--3 kids at home, no adults, and no money to spend on entertainment. However, today was fabulous. Chip and Katie are thrilled to have a break and they are loving playing outside. it was great to have a break from packing lunches and hurrying to get ready for the bus. I think I forget sometimes just how nice it is to have breaks in the school year--you know, teachers work hard and often don't get credit for it. In fact, folks say things like, "how nice to be a teacher and have all that time off," as if this gig is a walk in the park. The truth is the breaks are fabulous--and we need them. We need them to stay creative, stay positive, and stay patient with children. And the kids need breaks--time to decompress, play outside, and just be kids. It is a blessing that today we had that time.
Tuesday, March 15, 2011 Blessing #312
I am so thankful for neighbors! My neighbors Merryn and Judy stopped by this morning to pick up Chip and Katie and take them on an outing with some other kids from the neighborhood. As great as yesterday was with all 3 kids, today it is raining. And all 3 inside all day is too much for anyone--especially a Mom with a new baby. It was wonderful for them to have a diversion--and then Granna came and brought a yummy dinner with chicken and alfredo sauce. So, I'm sounding a bit like a broken record, but well--the truth is, I am healthy, I have a healthy baby, and friends and family who loves us and support us. What a blessing.
Wednesday, March 16, 2011 Blessing #313
The schedule really picked up today--and I am so impressed we got it all done! Granna hung out with the kids this morning (creating beautiful artwork) while I ran to the store. Henslee had another visit with the Dr.--she is gaining wonderfully, and her bilirubin isn't getting any higher. Then, the kids and I took Granna to Trey's work (Athens Orthopedic Clinic) for an MRI so we can figure out why she is having such leg pain. We made it to all of that on time! And then Chip and Trey headed to soccer practice. It is wonderful to end the day feeling I really accomplished a lot. On the one hand, I know that nursing a baby every 2.5 hours for 40 minutes at a time is a lot--really a full time job in itself--but it is still nice to get other things seen to. And my Mom comes tonight! I love that I am seeing so much of my family.
Wednesday, March 30, 2011
Going Buggy!
Check out the ginormous dragon fly in the middle of that photo. Today was the dress rehearsal for the 2nd grade play at Athens Academy. Grandmommy, Nana, Granna, and I decided it was best to take Henslee and watch the dress rehearsal than go to the actual play (talk about crowded--nothing packs the place like a Pre school or lower school play). Chip was a riot--at one point there was a free style component and he was getting down! He is really coming into his own and growing into the spotlight. There is just nothing like seeing your child shine on stage--and love doing it!
But my favorite moment was before the show started--I just happened to see him elbow his friend and say, "look, there's MY baby!" He is so proud of his sisters--even the newest one that requires so much of Mommy's attention. What a kid!
Friday, March 11, 2011 Blessing #308
Today Trey and I divided and conquered--and I have the feeling it is just first of countless times we will be employing that strategy. While he headed to the real performance of Chip's play, Granna and I took Henslee for a check up. Today I am thrilled that I have a partner in this parenting gig--that we have other family who will help us, and that my newest daughter is healthy! I've said it before, but it really does take a village!!
Saturday, March 12, 2011 Blessing #309
Turns out, we can do it! Chip and Katie had soccer games at the same time today--luckily on side by side fields. Trey coached Chip's team, and I stood right in the middle of the two fields wearing Henslee in the MOBY wrap (this is the greatest device ever--much better than the sling I used with the other two)
. I finally got into a rhythm--"Go, Chip!" turn "Go, Katie!" look down pat baby's hiney and ask, "Henslee, are you hungry, yet?" And then repeat. I was a bit worried about pulling all this off, but today I realized I am golden right up until a kid gets sick or until Henslee is darting to the parking lot. Thank heaven babies come out and stay still for a while! Even the blowout diaper in the car was doable. So, she had to eat lunch practically naked b/c of her soiled clothes? So what if my shirt smelled like sour milk? I mean in the grand scheme of things I've got this handled. I suppose I just don't get as stressed about being perfect with baby #3, and that is exactly how it should be.
Sunday, March 13, 2011 Blessing #310
It was so great to see our church family. Everyone oohed and aahed appropriately--and I am tickled to death to be settling into our new normal. We were back at church, out to lunch, and this afternoon I was back on to exercising. I went for a long walk today and it was fabulous. I am feeling strong and normal again. Oh, it will take a while for me to get my stamina back (and I know better than to even think my figure will ever fully recover), but my mind and body benefit so much from exercise and fresh air. Today I am thankful for settling into normal and for being well enough and strong enough to get walking!
Saturday, March 26, 2011
Moon Walk
Tuesday March 8, 2011 Blessing #305
I am starting to look like myself again. It is wild how losing 10 pounds of baby makes me feel so light on my feet. I am just 6 pounds away from my pre-pregnancy weight, and when I walk I feel like I'm in a near zero gravity environment. Feels like I'm walking on the moon.
Each day I am getting rid of extra fluid, and the muffin tops that had settled on my ankles are finally gone! As much as I love being pregnant, it is not designed to be a permanent condition. There comes the time when Mom and Baby are ready for it to be over and Henslee and I had reached that point. No more achiness in my pelvis, no more puffy feet, and no more crazy maneuvers just so I can get up off the couch. It is so great to remember what normal and healthy feel like in this body!
And, Thank God for Granna who got all the laundry done and Katie to soccer!
Wednesday, March 9, 2011 Blessing #306
Back to Dr. Glassman today! Her weight is holding steady, we are still checking her bilirubin and waiting for it to peak and then fall. I am just spending hours staring at her--watching her sleep, watching her breathe, and looking forward to those precious few moments every few hours when she's awake. There is nothing like the gaze of newborn to captivate my attention. What the world must look like to her--after being in my womb for months. It is amazing to watch her look around, take it all in, and see things for the first time. In fact, imagining how she preceives things makes everything seem fresh to me--it is as if she brought with her newness and possibility. And all this as the daffodils are blooming--spring is the perfect time to have a baby!
I am starting to look like myself again. It is wild how losing 10 pounds of baby makes me feel so light on my feet. I am just 6 pounds away from my pre-pregnancy weight, and when I walk I feel like I'm in a near zero gravity environment. Feels like I'm walking on the moon.
Each day I am getting rid of extra fluid, and the muffin tops that had settled on my ankles are finally gone! As much as I love being pregnant, it is not designed to be a permanent condition. There comes the time when Mom and Baby are ready for it to be over and Henslee and I had reached that point. No more achiness in my pelvis, no more puffy feet, and no more crazy maneuvers just so I can get up off the couch. It is so great to remember what normal and healthy feel like in this body!
And, Thank God for Granna who got all the laundry done and Katie to soccer!
Wednesday, March 9, 2011 Blessing #306
Back to Dr. Glassman today! Her weight is holding steady, we are still checking her bilirubin and waiting for it to peak and then fall. I am just spending hours staring at her--watching her sleep, watching her breathe, and looking forward to those precious few moments every few hours when she's awake. There is nothing like the gaze of newborn to captivate my attention. What the world must look like to her--after being in my womb for months. It is amazing to watch her look around, take it all in, and see things for the first time. In fact, imagining how she preceives things makes everything seem fresh to me--it is as if she brought with her newness and possibility. And all this as the daffodils are blooming--spring is the perfect time to have a baby!
Appreciating this Body!
Monday March 7, 2011 Blessing #304
Older kids were up early and off on the bus...that has been such a great thing! Granna is here, and she had them dressed with lunches made before Henslee and I had even emerged from her bedroom. Then we were off to the Dr. so Dr. Glassman could check over little miss and see about her weight gain and degree of jaundice. She is putting her weight back on--I think she lost to 9 pounds and 3 ounces, and today was back up to 9 pounds and 9 ounces. Her yellowness is still around though, so we'll be doing some more bilirubin checks this week.
At least she is eating great--I have been blessed 3 times now with fantastic nursers. All of my children arrived knowing how to nurse effectively-in fact, Chip taught me. I am so grateful b/c I know lots of women have a hard time with it, and ultimately go the way of the bottle. Had it not worked well for me, I might have done the same--and I would have missed my now favorite part of new mommy hood. It is another reason to marvel at what my body can do--to appreciate it (despite the stretch marks and pudges in places there didn't use to be any!), and it serves as a reunion between Mom and Baby. After 9 months physically linked-the separation is traumatic for both Mom and Baby and the feedings allow us to reconnect.
Nursing also forces me to sit down and focus on what is really important in my life. It is one of the few times I am filled with peace that comes with knowing I am doing exactly what I am supposed to be doing. What a blessing for this OCD, perfectionist, and exhausted Mommy.
Older kids were up early and off on the bus...that has been such a great thing! Granna is here, and she had them dressed with lunches made before Henslee and I had even emerged from her bedroom. Then we were off to the Dr. so Dr. Glassman could check over little miss and see about her weight gain and degree of jaundice. She is putting her weight back on--I think she lost to 9 pounds and 3 ounces, and today was back up to 9 pounds and 9 ounces. Her yellowness is still around though, so we'll be doing some more bilirubin checks this week.
At least she is eating great--I have been blessed 3 times now with fantastic nursers. All of my children arrived knowing how to nurse effectively-in fact, Chip taught me. I am so grateful b/c I know lots of women have a hard time with it, and ultimately go the way of the bottle. Had it not worked well for me, I might have done the same--and I would have missed my now favorite part of new mommy hood. It is another reason to marvel at what my body can do--to appreciate it (despite the stretch marks and pudges in places there didn't use to be any!), and it serves as a reunion between Mom and Baby. After 9 months physically linked-the separation is traumatic for both Mom and Baby and the feedings allow us to reconnect.
Nursing also forces me to sit down and focus on what is really important in my life. It is one of the few times I am filled with peace that comes with knowing I am doing exactly what I am supposed to be doing. What a blessing for this OCD, perfectionist, and exhausted Mommy.
Friday, March 25, 2011
Never easier....
Counting blessings has never been easier----
Saturday, March 5 2011 Blessing #302
By some miracle Trey got Chip to his rehearsal for the piano recital that comes tomorrow. My Mom helped me get all the clothes put away that she and Jane had washed while they stayed here with the kids. She also went to the grocery store for me. It is unlike me to be able to accept help even, but I've learned my lesson (only took 3 kids)--this fatigue is how I am supposed to feel, and I'm supposed to listen to my body. The bonding that happens between mother and baby is miraculous. She cries, I nurse, the hormones get circulating and I get motherly and drowsy. It literally becomes physically impossible to separate myself from my baby. Anyway, as all this important Mom and baby connections are developing, I'm thrilled to have other folks taking care of the daily stuff. I'm so lucky!
Sunday, March 6, 2011 Blessing #303
Wow, he is impressive! This kid has to be exhausted after the week we've had. Different folks putting him to bed at different times, plus the near all nighter at the hospital. He really didn't have much time to practice his piano, but he nailed it. He wavered a bit yesterday-he wasn't sure he could pull it off, but then today he got up there and hit it out of the park. Granna, Nan, Nana, Papa, and Aunt Melanie were all with us in the audience--and Henslee slept right through it.
I am so glad that I was able to see him shine...and then Trey and I were off with the baby to the hospital to get her bilirubin checked and Granna took Chip from piano to his soccer scrimmage. Again, I am amazed at how many of us it takes to get the job done! Thank God for this family!
Saturday, March 5 2011 Blessing #302
By some miracle Trey got Chip to his rehearsal for the piano recital that comes tomorrow. My Mom helped me get all the clothes put away that she and Jane had washed while they stayed here with the kids. She also went to the grocery store for me. It is unlike me to be able to accept help even, but I've learned my lesson (only took 3 kids)--this fatigue is how I am supposed to feel, and I'm supposed to listen to my body. The bonding that happens between mother and baby is miraculous. She cries, I nurse, the hormones get circulating and I get motherly and drowsy. It literally becomes physically impossible to separate myself from my baby. Anyway, as all this important Mom and baby connections are developing, I'm thrilled to have other folks taking care of the daily stuff. I'm so lucky!
Sunday, March 6, 2011 Blessing #303
I am so glad that I was able to see him shine...and then Trey and I were off with the baby to the hospital to get her bilirubin checked and Granna took Chip from piano to his soccer scrimmage. Again, I am amazed at how many of us it takes to get the job done! Thank God for this family!
Food Glorious Food!
Friday, March 4, 2011 Blessing #301
It was amazing to wake up at home today. Indeed, I woke up several times today--every 2 hours to be exact so I could nurse Henslee. And, each time I woke up, I was glad to be home. It is fabulous to be here with a healthy Mom and a healthy baby (I got very sick with childbed fever after Katie was born). I am thrilled that I have brought my baby home to a house with clean windows, a completed nursery, and clean baseboards. Trivial perhaps, but this nesting thing is for real......
Even better--my Mom was here to help with breakfast, get the kids on the bus to school, and ooh and aah over my little girl. Then, my Daddy came after work to spend the night with us too--so I was surrounded by helping, loving hands. Mom made a pot roast that was to die for--and perfect milk making food! Never in my life have I been this hungry!
Anyway, the blessing today? Trey and I are so lucky to have a home that we can be proud to bring a baby into. We are fortunate to have family surround us and help us welcome her, and I am happy to have plenty to eat. Mommy has to eat for baby to eat.....
It was amazing to wake up at home today. Indeed, I woke up several times today--every 2 hours to be exact so I could nurse Henslee. And, each time I woke up, I was glad to be home. It is fabulous to be here with a healthy Mom and a healthy baby (I got very sick with childbed fever after Katie was born). I am thrilled that I have brought my baby home to a house with clean windows, a completed nursery, and clean baseboards. Trivial perhaps, but this nesting thing is for real......
Even better--my Mom was here to help with breakfast, get the kids on the bus to school, and ooh and aah over my little girl. Then, my Daddy came after work to spend the night with us too--so I was surrounded by helping, loving hands. Mom made a pot roast that was to die for--and perfect milk making food! Never in my life have I been this hungry!
Anyway, the blessing today? Trey and I are so lucky to have a home that we can be proud to bring a baby into. We are fortunate to have family surround us and help us welcome her, and I am happy to have plenty to eat. Mommy has to eat for baby to eat.....
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