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Read the Books your Father Read

Can't seem to stop counting blessings.  Since I made it to 365, I won't keep up with numbers anymore, but I've got to keep writing.  It really did become a habit to count and report my blessings, and it has proven a hard habit to break. 

So, today I am thankful for my Dad.  I am thankful that he reads, that he taught me to love reading and to love learning.  He's made a hobby of reading presidential biographies-and I've just gotten started. This one is delightful!

Finishing the Gratitude Journey

Saturday May 7, 2011 Blessing #365

I have been procrastinating. I just can't believe I've arrived at 365 blessings-and I'm sad to close a chapter.  There were several times during this year when I wished I hadn't taken this on.  It isn't like I'm a Mom with nothing to do--I mean, this wasn't about filling time.  I work full time, I have 3 kids, and I am on a tireless quest to be the best at everything. I just started a 2nd job.  So, I really didn't have time for a new project--but, I think this was my response to my most recent trip to Haiti.

After my first trip in 2007, I developed an entirely new relationship with food. I lost the ability to overeat.  The reaction manifested before I really understood what was happening, but in retrospect I think I get it.  I just felt that if I have access to health care and education-so that I know what my body needs and I can get it seen about when I'm sick, there is not excuse for me to have an unhealthy relationship with food.  The Haitians I worked with would love to know more about taking good care of themselves.  The least I can do is that put that knowledge to use!

So, after this last trip, I came home with an acute sense of just how good I've got it.  I knew that I needed to keep that awareness, even as I was swept back up in a busy lifestyle of excess.  This exercise--noticing and documenting a blessing everyday--was designed to help me do just that. And now, I am at the end of my year--and here's what I can report:


 1.  It was much easier to find blessings than I thought--even on the bad days.  Without this exercise, I wouldn't have noticed them, so I'm thankful to have developed this habit.



2.  This exercise fundamentally changed my approach to negative situations.  Instead of looking for something to complain about, or someone to blame--I forced myself to look for the positive in traffic jams, debt issues, and confrontations.


3.  This promoted fabulous conversations with my children-and they became my cheer leaders. "Mom, did you type your blessing today?"  It has been good that I have modeled the discipline of thankfulness for them.


Those are the top 3--I could go on.  So, I did it--and I'm proud that I saw it through.  Completing this exercise is my blessing for today.  I am a better person for it!  Now, go count YOUR blessings.  :-)

Kids' Day

Thursday May 5, 2011 Blessing #363

Henslee was up right at 6:30 this morning. It makes it tough, because that is when I am supposed to be waking Chip and Katie and getting breakfast and lunches ready.  (Trey is gone at 6:30 everyday) Anyhow, I am lucky, because Chip is old enough to help.  I summoned him to Henslee's room to ask him to fix cereal since I was nursing--he took one look at me, and before I had time to say a word said, "Mom, you've got big dark bags under you eyes!"  I was feeling rough-and sure enough when I looked in the mirror later I had major raccoon action going on.

Yes, I'm tired--I'm also broke, frustrated with my never ending to do list, anxious about leaving Henslee to go back to work, and desperate for time alone with my Husband.  But I wouldn't trade any of it-I love being a Mom, and I've just learned that the dark bags under my eyes are just part of it!

Friday, May 6, 2011 Blessing #364

This morning I was sitting at breakfast with Chip and Katie, and they were telling me all about what I could expect to get for Mothers' Day.  It was so cute--they were beaming with pride over the Mom themed crafts they were working on at school.  So, it came time to give pre-bus hugs.  Katie, as she pulled out of my embrace, looked up at me and matter of factly said, "Mommy, I know what I'm going to ask for on Kids' Day.  When is it?"  I laughed back at her and said, "Honey, Kids' day is EVERYDAY! And with it you get everything you need, but no presents!"  I can remember a similar conversation with a 4 or 5 year old Chip-we had celebrated Mothers' Day then Fathers' Day-so he figured it perfectly reasonable to ask when Kids' Day was coming.  My children are hilarious!  And thank heaven that when I am all worked up about getting the clothes washed, the bookbags ready, and/or the kitchen the clean-they say something and remind me how precious it is to look at the world through their eyes.

I am One Person

Wednesday May 4, 2011 Blessing #362

Henslee had her 2 month check up today--she is doing fabulously!  She is longest of the 3 kids at this age--and as tall as they are now, I wonder if she will be even taller.  I hope so. I'm tall, and I remember being self conscious about it; but now I would give anything for another 2 inches!

She got a ton of vaccines this morning.  She wasn't pleased (understatement), but I am so thankful to have access to preventative care--having been in Haiti and seen children sick and dying from completely preventable illnesses, I know that vaccinations are a blessing and a major victory for science.

Tonight, I took Henslee and Katie to Snapshots--it is a series of monologues by the Advanced Acting Class at Athens Academy-and this year at the end there was a one woman show written and performed by Anne Lanier Gilbert.

Anne Lanier, a senior, is the current president of the Interact Club which I sponsor.  Last year, she was one of 6 students who accompanied me to Terrier Rouge, Haiti just 2 months after the country was ravaged by an earthquake.  She is a bright, beautiful, gifted girl--but even so, I was shocked by her response to that trip.  She came home called to action and was completely undeterred by her age or inexperience.  She set about organizing the Stop Hunger Now event on our campus, fund raising for earthquake victims, and planning this one woman show to increase awareness about poverty in Haiti.  She went  back to Haiti in December to take photos and do more research for her project, which she titled One Person.

It was just 20 minutes--she had beautiful photos and several heart felt monologues.  I sat in the back (rocking back and forth with Henslee in the Moby Wrap) and cried as she described the sweet, strong spirit of the Haitians.  She spoke of the way the children share their only meal of the day with one another--how the children are so happy with so little.  She talked about the contrast between Haitian children and American children--our children worry over the brand of blue jeans they wear and the Haitian children smile through their hunger.  At the end, she called others to service. She said, "I am Anne Lanier Gilbert, and I am just One Person. But together we can be many people working for Haiti."

What a young lady!  And what a testament to the miracle of visiting Haiti.  You go to minister, but the real magic happens inside of you.

Heartache and Potty Habits of the Supernatural

Monday May 2, 2011 Blessing #360

I am anxious about leaving Henslee in June, so anxious that I didn't sleep well the last 2 nights.  I know that plenty of working mothers will have no patience with this-I mean she will be 3 months old, and I will be away from her just 1/2 days for 3 weeks.  Plenty of mothers bypass breast feeding all together and have to put their babies in day care at 6 weeks of age.

Still, there is nothing like the feeling of being right HERE and able to respond immediately to Henslee.  I love to feed her, to talk with her (she is quite the conversationalist!), to nuzzle her baby peach fuzz, and to luxuriate in motherhood while she naps on my chest.  My heart aches thinking about any separation from her!

So, the best cure for this anxiety is to acknowledge just how great I've got it.  I am so grateful for this special time with Henslee.  I am blessed with a happy, healthy baby--and I am a happy, healthy mother.  I need to get better at not sweating the small stuff.


Tuesday May 3, 2011 Blessing #361

As Katie was headed out to catch the bus this morning, she piped up with, "Mom, does God go to the bathroom?"  Just then, the bus rounded the corner and she rushed outside.  I never got to answer, but I am still laughing about it.  This time of year folks are struggling to make sense of the Resurection and Transfiguration.  Katie just wants to understand God's  need for Elimination.

She is hilarious,bright, and inquisitive--and I love being surprised by what she says!  What a blessing she is.

2 Months of Blessings

Sunday May 1, 2011  Blessing #359

Henslee is 2 months old today. Where does the time go?  It was busy day--we started with Sunday School and church then headed out to lunch.  Next we had to get Katie ready for birthday party (of course this required a lat minute trip to Walmart).  While Trey took her (Thank God for him) Chip, Henslee and I headed out to exercise. Finally, my substitute teacher, Ashley (and Thank God for her--I mean I am not even worried about my students so I'm just enjoying my baby!), came over so we could start planning for final exams.  Trey made spaghetti (again, Wow!) we enjoyed a great meal and then Ashley and I got to work.  After nursing Henslee and tucking the last child in, I finally settled into bed.  It was then that I realized that we had reached the 2 month mark with Henslee.  What a fabulous 2 months--and how thankful I am to have a happy healthy baby and a wonderful home full of Love to raise her in!

What is God Made Of?

Saturday April 30, 2011 Blessing # 358

There I was, just relaxing on the couch and nursing my baby.  Katie, my 5 year old, climbs up beside me and very matter of factly asks, "Mommy, What is God made of? I mean boys are made of snips and snails and puppy dog tails and girls are made of sugar and spice and everything nice, so what is God made of? What Mommy?"  I said what I almost always say in these situations: "What an excellent question, Katie! Let's ask Papa (my Dad the Pastor!)."  But, I took a stab at it a few minutes later when I said:

"I believe God is made of Love."  She responded with "How do you know Mommy?"  "I don't know, Katie, I believe--and I believe it because every time I feel or see love I sense that I am in the presence of God."  She said, "Oh, OK!" and bounced off to change into another outlandish outfit and continue being a 5 year old little girl. That was enough for her. She left that interchange completely satisfied.


Today I am thankful for a moment with my daughter I will always remember. I was blessed by her example of child like faith.

Anyway

Friday April 29, 2011 Blessing #357


How am I already here?  Only 8 blessings left to write.  When I set out to do this a year ago, I had several goals.  First, I wanted to remember everyday how fortunate I am. Second, I wanted to get back in the habit of writing on a daily basis.  And finally, I wanted to share what I learned through this gratitude journey with whoever happened to read it.  I have managed to accomplish those 3 goals--and that is something to be proud of!  I'm not sure the blog-o-sphere would define me as successful.  I'm not making money from the ads or products featured on my site, I'm not overcome with large numbers of readers, and my blog is quite monotonous. By that, I mean themes have emerged in my blessings: love, friendship, health, food, shelter--the typical stuff; nothing too earth shattering.

So, now what?  I am pleased to say that the seeking of blessings has become second nature to me.  Likewise, the corresponding change in my approach to unpleasant days has made me a much nicer and easier to be around person.  I'm not suggesting that counting blessings prevents hard days from happening, but I am absolutely convinced that it has lessened the power those hard days have over me. I want to keep on with a bogging adventure, but I'm not sure where to go next.....any ideas?  I need to have it sorted out in 8 days!

And today--I'm thankful for this song that sums up my outlook on life.  It is an outlook made possible by the miracle of Easter. Every time I hear it, I find myself renewing my natural optimism and faith.  This song gets me through tough times (most recently a really nasty kitchen sink--a little less recently birthing a 10# baby). I'm thankful for the writers, the performer, and the courage to believe tomorrow will be better than today.


You can spend your whole life buildin'
Something from nothin'
One storm can come and blow it all away
Build it anyway

You can chase a dream
That seems so out of reach
And you know it might not ever come your way
Dream it anyway

God is great
But sometimes life ain't good
And when I pray
It doesn't always turn out like I think it should
But I do it anyway
I do it anyway

This world's gone crazy
It's hard to believe
That tomorrow will be better than today
Believe it anyway

You can love someone with all your heart
For all the right reasons
In a moment they can choose to walk away
Love 'em anyway

God is great
But sometimes life ain't good
And when I pray
It doesn't always turn out like I think it should
But I do it anyway
Yeah - I do it anyway

You can pour your soul out singing
A song you believe in
That tomorrow they'll forget you ever sang
Sing it anyway
Yea, sing it anyway
Yeah, yeah!

I sing
I dream
I love
anyway

Easter Blessings

Wednesday, April 20 2011, Blessing #348

Thank heaven for friends and neighbors!  I headed to school today to get some things squared away.  Then I rushed home to get ready to greet Chip and Katie plus their friends on the bus.  About then, I realized I just didn't have it in me to get Chip across town to his make up soccer game.  Poor Henslee had been strapped in that carrier all day--she was fussy with gas and/or reflux, and I was exhausted! Thank heaven for my friend and neighbor, Adele, who picked him up on the way and took him.   And thank heaven that I have gotten to a place in my life where I will ask for help in that way.  For too long I have been trying to do everything myself--as if asking for help was something to be ashamed of.  I am over it.....I realize now that all I can do is my best, and that I am blessed with friends and family who will help!



Thursday, April 21 2011, Blessing #349

 Easy as pie to find the blessing today!  Look at these happy, healthy children. They were out of school today and are out again tomorrow.  Oh sure, we may be in debt up to our eyeballs, but in all the things that matter, we are so blessed!  And as far as the debt goes--we're working on it.  :-)  It just takes forever.

Friday, April 22, 2011, Blessing #350

 Thank heaven that today Gloria came!  The kids were out of school again today, so I packed them up and headed to Chic-Fil-A for lunch.  Then we went to visit my friend Julie and her kids Cole and Kinsey, who used to live right down the street. It was so fun for the kids to catch up with their friends--and it was so fun for me to visit with Julie.  After we left Julie's, we picked Jean and Carson up for burgers at our house.  It was a day filled with love and laughter--and when I got home the house was clean.

Saturday, April 23, 2011 Blessing #351

Headed to the farm today--and the house is almost ready!   It is so exciting that we are finally going to have a place where the whole family can gather comfortably.  I was so sad when they sold our place in Conyers--I felt like my home had been taken from me, but I have since realized that wherever Mom and Dad are is home for me.

Anyway, it was wonderful to see Mom, Dad, and Grand mommy.  The weather was beautiful, the lunch was delicious, the kids ran, climbed, and explored.  Henslee smiled and talked to everyone--and enjoyed a long nap in her Papa's arms.  It was just a perfect day with my family. I am so thankful for all of them!


Sunday, April 24, 2011 Blessing #352

Happy Easter!  Today celebrates the triumph of love over hate, life over death, and good over evil. Today is the reason I am an optimist-the reason that I believe there are blessings for me to seek everyday.  Thank God for the miracle of Easter.  We were at our church for Sunday School and Easter, and then headed to Trey's Aunt Carol Anne's for Easter lunch and a fierce egg hunt!  Here are some pics (thanks to Granna!):

Monday, April 25, 2011 Blessing #353

Today was a wonderful stay at home and get things back in order day! I walked and it felt great to get in the sunshine. I made it to the grocery store, caught up on the laundry, and nursed my baby.  I was on the baby aisle at the store, and couldn't believe the price of formula--I am so thankful that I am able to feed my baby with my milk--because I know it is the best thing for her, but also because it is saving our family so much money! I also realized that I have yet to buy a diaper for Henslee. We have been so blessed with family and friends giving us diapers as gifts--she is two months old and I think we might make it all the way to 3 months before we have to buy any!  Thank God that I can feed my baby....and thank God for the family and friends that are helping us support her!


Tuesday, April 26, 2011 Blessing #354

I finally finished my thank you notes--and I am nearly caught up on my blessings.  I know that my job is to tend this precious baby--but I also need to keep the house straight and the laundry done, shuttle the other two to activities, prepare meals that cost little or no money, and work on the STEM Academy for UGA. Now it is time for me to start working with my sub on the final exam for my students at Athens Academy.I also really want to complete Katie's first year scrapbook (yes, you read that right--Katie, not Henslee--better late than never!)  I am not complaining about having a lot to do--I love all of it!  I just spend so much of my days trying to finish things, and it never seems to happen. Every surface in my house is covered with a work in progress, and I haven't been able to complete any of them!  But today, Henslee had a long morning nap, and I got something marked off my list! I am so glad that I was able to let folks know how much I appreciate their love for us and gifts for Henslee--and that I got to clean off the table where all those notes and address books were!



Wednesday, April 27, 2011 Blessing #355

 It is easy today!  We checked the kids out of school and headed to Gwinnett Medical to welcome Jaycie Elizabeth and Hudson Paul Mitchell--my sister in law had twins!  She is healthy and the babies are beautiful!  I am so excited when I think about Henslee having them to play with at our family gatherings.  It is going to be so fun to watch all these kids grow up!

Thursday, April 28, 2011 Blessing #356

I awoke today and found text messages on my phone from UGA indicating we were under tornado warning around 1:30am.  I had no idea--and if one had really hit here, we'd have been in big trouble.  We were all asleep in our bedrooms--and never woke up to move to a main floor interior room.  The news is riddled with images of horrible destruction in Alabama, North Georgia, and even as close as Madison.  Today, I am thankful that our home and family are intact.  I feel like we were so lucky--and I am going to buy a weather radio!

Palm Sunday in the Neighborhood with a Good Back

Sunday, April 17, 2011 Blessing #345

Happy Palm Sunday.  This morning we headed to church--and Jean and her family came too! It was fabulous. I love my church so much, but I wish more of my family went there.  Growing up with Daddy preaching, I was seldom at church without sisters and/or Grand parents.  I miss that so much--being in the pew, the Bible study, or Sunday school with family.

After church we had our Celebratory Lunch and Egg Hunt.  Chip, Katie, Carson, Miles, and Dylan loved hunting eggs--and they each got a ton!

It was a blessing to celebrate Jesus' triumphant entry to Jerusalem--and even more so because I had so much family to share it with!



Monday, April 18, 2011 Blessing #346

I headed out to walk today and met up my neighbor, Judy.  I walked yesterday too, and I do love it, but it still helps motivate me to have an appointment with a friend.  Katie and her daughter Ella are the same age and attend school together--so the time flew as we compared stories showcasing their stubborn, strong personalities.  I just got to thinking---in no time we'll be sharing stories of parenting teenage girls.  How neat that we'll share all this history!  Just imagine; homecoming, prom, boyfriends, sports, and sleepovers.  I am blessed to be a part of this community.



Tuesday, April 19, 2011 Blessing #347

Still walking! That makes 3 days in a row--and I am feeling fabulous.  I am having some pain in my left leg from the bulging disk in my back, but so far my press ups are keeping it a bay. Have I ever talked here about my back injury?  About 3 months after Katie was born I herniated two disks in my low back--and in my left leg, I lost reflexes and feeling.  (this was just a symptom from weakness caused by too much bed rest with the sepsis.  A week in the hospital will just zap your strength).  The neurosurgeon was keen to operate when the problem kept getting worse instead of better--but I was nursing a new baby and wouldn't agree to surgery.  I spent 6 weeks on my stomach whenever possible and worked several times a week in intensive rehab.  Ultimately, I healed--but I still get flare ups.  In fact, I was scared this pregnancy and/or delivery would send me under the knife with a recurrence of the herniations.  Well, I'm not out of the woods yet--but I am thankful that so far I'm still standing!

Dear Bank of America, Please Return my Soul

Funny Title-but so true! Today our debt is on my mind......Maybe I should actually buy a lottery ticket?

Monday, April 11, 2011 Blessing # 339


It was fabulous to wake up at home today--and to not have to put Henslee in the car seat. I feel like the poor thing was cooped up all weekend in that seat while Mom and I were at the conference.  I had no idea how exhausted that trip would make me--even though I had a blast making memories.  It was a lot--hiking hills and toting this baby and all her gear. I am feeling stronger, but I got pretty anemic at the end of my pregnancy, and it takes a long time to recover from that.  So, today, I am beat. I am thrilled to sit on the couch and stare at and cuddle with my baby--Oh, and I'm going to give her a bath to get the travel grime off. There is nothing like the smell of fresh baby to make me feel like all is right with the world.

I am thankful for downtime and for a precious, fresh baby who loves her bath!  And for Granna who took these pictures a few weeks ago!


Tuesday, April 12, 2011 Blessing #340

Today I attended a funeral of a dear friend of our family.  Specifically, the Grandfather of my husband's brother in law, Don.  I have know Don a long time--since we were in physical therapy together 15 years ago.  His daughter, Karen, set Trey and I up on our first date.  His Grandson, Kasey, is a fabulous husband to my sister-in-law Courtni.  (On a side note, Trey, Courtni, Kasey, and I all went to high school together)

The funeral was such a blessing.  Oh, sure, there were tears, but there was also joy.  Joy that Don lived and loved--that he knew he was loved by God--and that he modeled faith and love for all those in his family.  He was a good, gentle man--his love for his wife and all that resulted from it made the world better.  Today I am thankful for Don--and for all those who have loved before making my life possible.


Wednesday, April 13, 2011 Blessing #341

I love being able to put my baby in the stroller and head out to exercise. It makes me feel so good!  Our neighborhood is full of walkers, so I also get ample opportunity to show her off.  We spend time talking about the flowers, the birds, the beautiful blue sky (are you all cracking up right now imagining me talking to baby who can't talk back? Well, I talk ALL the time and she is such a good listener!)

Anyway--today I am thankful that I am healthy, that the weather is allowing me to be in the sun, and that my mind and body are reaping the benefits of exercise. 


Thursday, April 14, 2011 Blessing #342

Almost as healthy as a horse! I saw my OB today and was pronounced fit as a fiddle. I'm still a tad anemic, but that is on its way to right, but other than that things are great.  I can't believe Henslee is 6 weeks old already. The time has come to try and introduce a bottle--not because I'm going to stop nursing, but to allow for occasional separation.  Here's hoping that goes well!  Anyway, other parents know 6 weeks is a milestone--and Henslee and I made it!



Friday, April 15, 2011 Blessing #343

I love that it is tax day and my taxes have been done for weeks!  I am not famous for working ahead--especially on tedious tasks, but on this we got our stuff together.  It helps a ton that I'm on leave, so I was able to just pop into the accountant's office during regular business hours.  I am amazed at all I can accomplish with time off (even though I'm nursing the equivalent of a full time job every day!).  Pictures of the kids, eye check ups, I have scheduled car service, pest control, air conditioner tune ups....and managed to fix yummy meals most nights.  I know that part of what is great about working is making money---but part of what is great about not working is saving money on convenience meals and eating out. I am able to save that money because I have to THINK about ingredients, preparation, menu planning.  I am grateful for this change of pace--and for all I'm learning about ways to fix easy, inexpensive meals that I can still do when I'm back at work.  I miss teaching--but I am blessed to have this window of flexibility in my schedule that provides for time to marvel at my baby and time to think about what will make our lives easier and less expensive later.


Saturday, April 16, 2011 Blessing #344

Happy Festival Day!  Today was the annual PSO fundraiser on campus.  We've not been to one yet usually b/c of soccer or family doings--but I am so glad we went this time and we won't miss it again. It was a blast for the kids and grown ups.  Chip and Katie started us off with a Pre School/Lower School performance of awesome music (Bon Jovi and Journey!).  There were inflatables, dunking booths, yummy snacks, and fellowship.  It was just a feel good, fun, collection of parenting moments.  I was thrilled to have my husband there with us and to watch my children laugh with their friends in that community they love.  We are so blessed to be a part of Athens Academy!

Still Catching Up!

Saturday, April 9, 2011 Blessing #337

I have my Mom all to myself!  We have laughed so much already this weekend--and that is really saying something, given that finding and settling into our accommodations was a nightmare.  After we got on campus, we realized due to a communication error that we were slotted to be in a cabin with students from other high schools.  Clearly, with me nursing every 3 hours, this wasn't going to do.  So, we began looking for a hotel (parked on the Berry campus, with me nursing in the back seat!), and couldn't find one with a vacancy within 30 miles from the school.  I couldn't believe it--Rome is famous for not having much going on except when Berry or Shorter are having a graduation.  I love Interact, but there is no way it has filled up every hotel!  So, we ended up at a Holiday Inn in Cedartown (in their last room--really?  It is a one horse town!) at Midnight.  It took an hour to get checked in, and then I began unloading the truck.  Because of the pack and play it took another half hour. Finally at 2:00 am we were in bed.  Henslee never missed a beat--in fact, she slept straight through it--it was the first night she went from 10:30 until 5:30 without feeding--but a lot of good it did me, traipsing all over creation lugging a pack and play at just 5 weeks post partum.

I have a chronic issue with over extending myself.  You know, saying, "oh, we'll just go! with the new baby" several months ago didn't seem like such a big deal until I was crashing into bed at 2am.  Promising to be grateful everyday for a year didn't seem like a stretch either--but it is tough and has required major discipline.  I mean, in the throws of the mess last night and early this morning, it is my job to find the blessing.

Well, here it is--Mom and I will never forget that! (kind of like that time we spent Dad's emergency money on lingerie in FLA).  We laughed until our sides hurt, and had it all gone according to plan it wouldn't have been nearly as special. So I'm thankful I woke up in a bed--thankful my Mom is here to help me navigate this craziness--and thankful I love my work with Interact Club enough to commit to it in the first place!




Sunday, April 10, 2011 Blessing #338

Oh, my back hurts!  But we are home and I am so glad.  It was a wonderful weekend.  Watching young people celebrate service is a fabulous past time. It was great to visit with the Rotarians who support their work, and I will cherish the memories I made with Mom.  But now, I am thankful for a safe trip home--and that tonight I will sleep in my bed (for however long Henslee allows it!)  Oh, and the District Interact Chair informed me they were making a gift to Bethlehem Ministry in my honor.  That made me pretty happy!

A Whole lot of Thanking Going On

Tuesday, April 5, 2011 Blessing #333

I kept Chip out this morning, so we could get his left eye checked out.  The pediatrician has noticed it is a bit weaker than his right, and I figured I should get it seen about while I'm on leave.  It was a riot.  I overslept, so Katie missed the bus.  That meant I had all 3 kids in the room with the opthalmologist.  (not too mention the skit the kids put on in the waiting room with Katie's toy horses) At one point, I was nursing, Katie was rolling on the Dr.'s stool, and Henslee was pooping all over her clothes and blanket.  I suppose it sank in--my life will never be the same!  The good news is Chip's eye is fine.  No glasses yet, which is great, because I can't imagine managing one more thing.  Anyway--I was tense and frustrated. But I was forced by this exercise in gratitude to find the blessing--and I know that I am fortunate that my family has access to healthcare.


Wednesday, April 6, 2011 Blessing #334

I took Chip to meet Trey for practice tonight, and that means I got to have time with just my girls.  Katie is marvelous.  She is fiesty--don't get me wrong--and difficult and stubborn.  But the girl is going places.  She has been amazing with Henslee (even if a little ill with Mommy), and I love watching her come into her own.  She has an artist's eye-which she must have gotten from her Dad. She lives to change her clothes and wear outlandish outfits.  She is an genius at interpersonal skills and can get anyone to do just about anything she wants.  This girl is such an individual, and I can't wait to see her impact on the world.

Thursday, April 7, 2011 Blessing #335

So, I have been looking pretty rough. Way to much gray hair for my age. It is the one thing about pregnancy, I don't love. Sure, my hair gets thick and shiny, but it also gets grey.  After this third pregnancy, I have so much gray I will have to pull out the big guns to cover it up! So, that's where I headed today...Shannon Salon and Spa...and I left feeling like a new person.  I feel so shallow saying it, but getting my hair done today really put a spring in my step.  Plus, I got to catch up with Shannon and show off my new baby.  It was great that today I got to do something just for me--and I know it seems small, but I am all about being thankful for hair color!




Friday, April 8, 2011 Blessing #336

Today I took a road trip with my Mom, my friend and colleague Julie, Baby Henslee, and MacKinsey and Aashni (two students).  We headed through the Gate of Opportunity at Berry College for the District Interact Club Conference (if I haven't mentioned it, I love Rotary--and Interact is the high school version--I sponsor it at the Academy) .  I graduated from Berry in 1999, and my 4 years there were special beyond the telling.  I learned so much about myself and about Biology.  The campus is incredible--the views, the fragrances--and the feelings I get when I pull onto campus are so strong!  It just hit me so hard as we pulled through the gate that I am so grateful for the opportunity I had to study there.  I am inspired by that place and by the legacy of Martha Berry.  I thank God, and my parents, for making that inspiration possible.

Eveyln Paris

Monday, April 4, 2011 Blessing #332

This is my Grandmother's birthday--Eveyln Paris Watson.  She died when I was pregnant with Chip.  I remember so much about her.  She had a wonderful zest for life, an infectious laugh, and a serious sweet tooth.  She loved her children fiercely, and was carried away with her Grandkids too.  Today I am thinking about all the good that is in the world because she loved my Grandfather.  I wish she could see me be a Mom and know my children--but mostly I am thankful that I knew her.

See My Miracle

Thursday, March 31, 2011 Blessing #328

Look at her--the blessing is easy today!

I know that it is a miracle that I am able to have a happy, healthy baby with a man I adore.  Thank you, God, for this gift.



Friday, April 1, 2011 Blessing #329

Henslee had her one month check up today. She is happy and healthy.  I can't help but think about the mothers who try to conceive-and can't, or the mothers without access to health care who lose their lives during delivery, or the mothers who lose their babies to preventable diseases, and I thank God.  So, I'm tired. My life with three children is crazy.  We owe a ton of money and have barely any in savings. I am rich beyond measure in all the ways that matter!



Saturday, April 2, 2011 Blessing #330

Soccer and the Farm--two of my favorite things all in one day!  The weather was perfect for a day spent outside and Mom made meat loaf.  I am so thankful that my parents are close enough that we can pop over sometimes--and get a little taste of home.  The farm was gorgeous--and I feel like Henslee arrived and brought spring time with her.  Everywhere I looked today I saw signs of life, hope, and joy.  What a gift!



Sunday, April 3, 2011 Blessing #331

Talk about a comedy of errors. We were up in time to get to church--in fact we were dressed for Sunday School.  Then, Henslee had to nurse before we got there.  So, we decided to feed her, go out to breakfast, and then head to church.  Well, our breakfast out was a nightmare--no place to sit, late getting fed, etc, and long story short, we were all dressed up and never made it to church.  The blessing--I didn't even get upset!  Me, the type A control freak--I mean, we did our best! It just wasn't in the cards.  The more experience (and children) I have, the more I realize how little I actually control.  You  know, it is very freeing to give up that illusion and learn to roll with things.  I'm thankful I can't be in charge of it all.....and grateful for the faith I have in the One who is.

Blessings X 3

Sunday March 27, 2011 Blessing #324

A rainy, dreary family day is just what the doctor ordered. Sometimes you just need to slow down and enjoy being with each other--without having to hurry to the next place, or plan for the next event.  Today was that for our family, and it felt good.

Monday March 28, 2011 Blessing #325

By some miracle, I mangaged to get the kids fed and the homework complete before piano.  That's no small feat, but I would be remiss if I didn't admit that there was bribery involved.  Nothing gets the kids motivated to eat and work like the promise of milkshakes on the way home from piano.

Speaking of milkshakes--I have never been this hungry.  Nursing makes me famished!  It is wild that I have gone from growing a baby inside of me to growing one on the outside--and I need even more calories than when  I was pregnant.  It just has me thinking--what if I couldn't get enough to eat?  What if I didn't have access to healthy food that I need to make good milk for Henslee? There is a powerful scene in the novel Pillars of the Earth when a pregnant Mom is malnourished-she later dies in childbirth.  It happens all the time in Haiti and other improvished nations--and I know it happens closer to home as well.  I can't imagine the horror of not being able to provide for my children.  Today I am so thankful that I have plenty to eat--that I can feed my family (including Henslee!).

Wednesday March 30, 2011 Blessing #327

Granna is back!  She is feeling better--and the kids are so excited to spend time with her.  We had an incredible meal at LOCOS, watched a movie, and just enjoyed being together.  I am so glad she get to have to some special time with Henslee-her namesake.  It is a great thing, the way a new baby brings the family together. I have gotten to see so much of the people I love!  This baby is not even a month old--and she has already given so much to our family by brining us all together.

4 more

Wednesday March 23, Blessing #320

Mom is here! A great thing about a new baby is the way it brings the family together.  My Mom came yesterday and spent the night with me for my birthday.  It is wonderful to wake with her here.  I know lots of ladies who wouldn't count time with their Mom as a blessing--the time was a blessing, and the fact that I think that is an even bigger one.



Thursday March 24, Blessing #321

Every article of clothing--except those that are on my family members--is clean! When Chip was born, I joined a local branch of the National Mothers' Center.  In my new Moms, new babies group, I heard a real pearl of wisdom from a Mom with a several month old baby (to me, with a baby at just a few weeks old, she seemed like a real sage).  The pearl went something like this:  "just be happy if you can accomplish one thing other than caring for your baby--maybe it's a shower, maybe it's the laundry--but just one thing.  That way you can't be disappointed and if you get more than that done it's icing!"  Well, today I got icing....every single item of clothing is clean and put away.  What a feeling....I think I will just sit here with my feet up and be thankful for a sleeping baby, an automatic washer and dryer, and my newly organized closets.  It just feels yummy....



 Friday March 25, 2011 Blessing #322

Simultaneous play dates are the way to go!  What a great day--Chip and Katie brought friends home with them on the bus for a couple of hours.  As a working Mom, I don't get to do enough play dates--I always feel like I'm behind reciprocating, so the school bus and this time at home are providing an opportunity to fix it.  They felt so special bringing Matthew and Caitlyn home--I ordered a cheeze pizza, which is always a big hit, and it was just a lovely afternoon.  I pretty much get heralded as Mom of the year when I set stuff like this up, so I'm going to have to do it more often.

Then Trey and I had a birthday date (with Henslee, of course)--we went to the movies and saw The Lincoln Lawyer.  It was a great movie--one of those I think I need to watch again to make sure I got it.  It was wonderful to be out with my husband (Henslee pretty much slept and ate, they are so easy to tote at this age!).  I am blessed that my children have friends, and that they are proud to show them their home. I am blessed that my husband wants to take me out for my birthday and that my baby let it happen!



Saturday March 26, 2011 Blessing #323

You win some, you lose some, and some get rained out!  Thankfully today was a rain out. It is like stumbling across found time. That translated into awesome time for reading on my fabulous birthday present. I love my Kindle!  All the books I want in one place--no bulky bags for traveling--a real green way to enjoy all that I want to read.  I have already started a Ken Robinson book and a Thomas Sowell book.  And I can use my kindle to shop for other books--anywhere there is wireless. I am in heaven.  Oh, and how about that Trey gave me the kindle with books from my "to read' list already on it!  What a gift and what a man!

Meetings, Meetings, Soccer Snacks, Walmart, Rotary, 34!

Thursday March 17, 2011 Blessing #314

Back at work today!  Isn't that crazy?  I'm not back teaching full time, but I did need to meet with teachers at a local high school for my work at UGA.  Fortunately, it is work that is very papoose friendly so Henslee could stay with me, while Chip and Katie stayed home with my Mom.  It was wonderful to be back in a science classrom--and it was wonderful to show my baby girl off.  I was anxious about how I might be received--our society isn't exactly papoose oriented (it should be you know, don't get me started)--but the women I met with applauded me for my decision to keep my baby with me whenever possible.

Then, I met with my long term sub--she came to my house, which was awesome.  She is so so good, so earnest, and so thorough--it is hugely relaxing to know that my kids at the Academy are well taken care of.  Again, I'm just feeling more and more normal--like I'm settling in and finally able to be productive and not just reproductive (hee hee---only a science teacher).

I'm blessed to have a family and work to fulfill me!


Friday, March 18, 2011 Blessing #315

Another meeting at another high school today!  And a yummy dinner. My friend and colleague brought over a fabulous lasagna (part without noodles for me!) and picked  Katie up for extra special play time. I dropped Chip at my sisters and headed to my meeting.  I loved being back around teenagers.  Oh, I know that I am where I am supposed to be with my baby, but it is wonderful to know that I miss teaching too.  Hopefully, I will feel ready when it is time to go back. Today, I am thankful for lasagna and teenagers.



Saturday, March 19, 2011 Blessing #316

I didn't get to see Katie's game today.  I tried so hard, but first I had to nurse and dress myself and the baby. Then Henslee and I had to stop and get snacks for her team.  We strolled up to the soccer field just as the game was being called early (because the other team was crying--soccer and 4 and 5 year olds is an interesting combo).  So, before Chip's team started, I had to nurse again. I love to nurse, but Henslee and I are stiill at the phase where it is hard to do it in public. There is so much milk and she is a pretty noisy eater, so I opt for nursing the car where it is nice and quiet and I don't have to worry  about spraying any soccer enthusiasts with milk.  While I'm nursing in the car, she spits up and soaks both our clothes, and then poos a giant mess all out of her diaper.

Well, I was afraid Katie would be devestated--but turns out her favorite part of the experience is snack anyway.  So as far as she was concerned I made it to all the important stuff--even though I missed her first goal.  Funny how parents get worked up over things--and kids have a whole diffferent idea of what matters.  There is something special about her Mom being team Mom for the day and showing up with  juice boxes and granola bars that communicates to Katie her own importance--importance to me, and maybe importance to her peers.  Anyway, thank God I got the snack and made it in time.




Sunday, March 20, 2011 Blessing #317

Oh, I went shopping at Walmart! All by myself (I'm hearing the Celine Dion song now!).  It was so great--I was so productive and efficient-well right up until I was the last in a long line behind the ONLY open register.  I don't get it.  Why have a 100 registers if you aren't going to use them all? Or at least more than one!! 

Anyway, I picked up floor mats, place mats, milk storage bags, and a birthday gift for our neighbor, Monroe.  Chip and Katie are headed to her party this afternoon. It was wonderful to mark some things off the list and do it so simply and easily.  So today I am thankful for Trey who hung with all 3 kids while I ran an errand and enjoyed feeling so free--even though I was ready to nuzzle that baby as soon as I got home!




Monday, March 21, 2011 Blessing #318

Henslee and I headed to the Rotary meeting today. It was so amazing--I watched my officers give an incredible program about Intearct's year in review.  I've been out, so they had no guidance from me to speak of.  They prepared and delivered an engaging, fabulous presentation and wowed everyone.  Including their sponsor!  I am so pleased to see them shine--and so happy that they have taken such ownership of the service our club engages in. I work with amazing young people, and it is so gratifying to see them mature and progress as leaders.  Oh, and Henslee didn't even make a peep!


Tuesday, March 22, 2011 Blessing #319


34 years old!  I can't believe it---but here it is, my birthday.  Well, today I am thankful for that proverbial sparkle in my parents' eyes.  I still feel like a kid-and when I think of my life-even of just what the last decade of it has involved, I can't believe how much has happened.  Marriage, kids, home buying, graduate degrees--it's  a wonder I'm not exhausted.  Oh, wait, I am exhausted--but it is a wonderful tired that comes after doing good and purposeful work.  My life is fabulous--I am thankful for every second of it, and so hopeful that it makes the world better in some small way.

Spring Breaking it!

Monday, March 14, 2011 Blessing #311

I have been terrified about this week.  Spring break--3 kids at home, no adults, and no money to spend on entertainment.  However, today was fabulous. Chip and Katie are thrilled to have a break and they are loving playing outside.  it was great to have a break from packing lunches and hurrying to get ready for the bus.  I think I forget sometimes just how nice it is to have breaks in the school year--you know, teachers work hard and often don't get credit for it. In fact, folks say things like, "how nice to be a teacher and have all that time off," as if this gig is a walk in the park. The truth is the breaks are fabulous--and we need them.  We need them to stay creative, stay positive, and stay patient with children.  And the kids need breaks--time to decompress, play outside, and just be kids. It is a blessing that today we had that time.

Tuesday, March 15, 2011 Blessing #312

I am so thankful for neighbors!  My neighbors Merryn and Judy stopped by this morning to pick up Chip and Katie and take them on an outing with some other kids from the neighborhood. As great as yesterday was with all 3 kids, today it is raining.  And all 3 inside all day is too much for anyone--especially a Mom with a new baby.  It was wonderful for them to have a diversion--and then Granna came and brought a yummy dinner with chicken and alfredo sauce.   So, I'm sounding a bit like a broken record, but well--the truth is, I am healthy, I have a healthy baby, and friends and family who loves us and support us.  What a blessing.

Wednesday, March 16, 2011 Blessing #313

The schedule really picked up today--and I am so impressed we got it all done!  Granna hung out with the kids this morning (creating beautiful artwork) while I ran to the store.  Henslee had another visit with the Dr.--she is gaining wonderfully, and her bilirubin isn't getting any higher.  Then, the kids and I took Granna to Trey's work (Athens Orthopedic Clinic) for an MRI so we can figure out why she is having such leg pain.  We made it to all of that on time!  And then Chip and Trey headed to soccer practice.   It is wonderful to end the day feeling I really accomplished  a lot. On the one hand, I know that nursing a baby every 2.5 hours for 40 minutes at a time is a lot--really a full time job in itself--but it is still nice to get other things seen to.  And my Mom comes tonight! I love that I am seeing so much of my family.

Going Buggy!

Thursday, March 10, 2011 Blessing #307

Check out the ginormous dragon fly in the middle of that photo.  Today was the dress rehearsal for the 2nd grade play at Athens Academy.  Grandmommy, Nana, Granna, and I decided it was best to take Henslee and watch the dress rehearsal than go to the actual play (talk about crowded--nothing packs the place like a Pre school or lower school play).  Chip was a riot--at one point there was a free style component and he was getting down!  He is really coming into his own and growing into the spotlight.  There is just nothing like seeing your child shine on stage--and love doing it!

But my favorite moment was before the show started--I just happened to see him elbow his friend and say, "look, there's MY baby!"  He is so proud of his sisters--even the newest one that requires so much of Mommy's attention.  What a kid!

Friday, March 11, 2011 Blessing #308

Today Trey and I divided and conquered--and I have the feeling it is just first of countless times we will be employing that strategy.  While he headed to the real performance of Chip's play, Granna and I took Henslee for a check up.  Today I am thrilled that I have a partner in this parenting gig--that we have other family who will help us, and that my newest daughter is healthy!  I've said it before, but it really does take a village!!



Saturday, March 12, 2011 Blessing #309

Turns out, we can do it! Chip and Katie had soccer games at the same time today--luckily on side by side fields.  Trey coached Chip's team, and I stood right in the middle of the two fields wearing Henslee in the MOBY wrap (this is the greatest device ever--much better than the sling I used with the other two)
.  I finally got into a rhythm--"Go, Chip!" turn "Go, Katie!" look down pat baby's hiney and ask, "Henslee, are you hungry, yet?" And then repeat.  I was a bit worried about pulling all this off, but today I realized I am golden right up until a kid gets sick or until Henslee is darting to the parking lot.  Thank heaven babies come out and stay still for a while!  Even the blowout diaper in the car was doable. So, she had to eat lunch practically naked b/c of her soiled clothes? So what if my shirt smelled like sour milk?  I mean in the grand scheme of things I've got this handled.  I suppose I just don't get as stressed about being perfect with baby #3, and that is exactly how it should be.







Sunday, March 13, 2011 Blessing #310

It was so great to see our church family.  Everyone oohed and aahed appropriately--and I am tickled to death to be settling into our new normal.  We were back at church, out to lunch, and this afternoon I was back on to exercising. I went for a long walk today and it was fabulous.  I am feeling strong and normal again.  Oh, it will take a while for me to get my stamina back (and I know better than to even think my figure will ever fully recover), but my mind and body benefit so much from exercise and fresh air.   Today I am thankful for settling into normal and for being well enough and strong enough to get walking!

Moon Walk

Tuesday March 8, 2011 Blessing #305

I am starting to look like myself again. It is wild how losing 10 pounds of baby makes me feel so light on my feet.  I am just 6 pounds away from my pre-pregnancy weight, and when I walk I feel like I'm in a near zero gravity environment.  Feels like I'm walking on the moon.

Each day I am getting rid of extra fluid, and the muffin tops that had settled on my ankles are finally gone!  As much as I love being pregnant, it is not designed to be a permanent condition.  There comes the time when Mom and Baby are ready for it to be over and Henslee and I had reached that point.  No more achiness in my pelvis, no more puffy feet, and no more crazy maneuvers just so I can get up off the couch.  It is so great to remember what normal and healthy feel like in this body!

And, Thank God for Granna who got all the laundry done and Katie to soccer!

Wednesday, March 9, 2011 Blessing #306

Back to Dr. Glassman today!  Her weight is holding steady, we are still checking her bilirubin and waiting for it to peak and then fall.  I am just spending hours staring at her--watching her sleep, watching her breathe, and looking forward to those precious few moments every few hours when she's awake.  There is nothing like the gaze of newborn to captivate my attention.  What the world must look like to her--after being in my womb for months.  It is amazing to watch her look around, take it all in, and see things for the first time.  In fact, imagining how she preceives things makes everything seem fresh to me--it is as if she brought with her newness and possibility.  And all this as the daffodils are blooming--spring is the perfect time to have a baby!

Appreciating this Body!

Monday March 7, 2011 Blessing #304

Older kids were up early and off on the bus...that has been such a great thing! Granna is here, and she had them dressed with lunches made before Henslee and I had even emerged from her bedroom. Then we were off to the Dr. so Dr. Glassman could check over little miss and see about her weight gain and degree of jaundice.  She is putting her weight back on--I think she lost to 9 pounds and 3 ounces, and today was back up to 9 pounds and 9 ounces.   Her yellowness is still around though, so we'll be doing some more bilirubin checks this week.

At least she is eating great--I have been blessed 3 times now with fantastic nursers.  All of my children arrived knowing how to nurse effectively-in fact, Chip taught me.  I am so grateful b/c I know lots of women have a hard time with it, and ultimately go the way of the bottle.  Had it not worked well for me, I might have done the same--and I would have missed my now favorite part of new mommy hood.  It is another reason to marvel at what my body can do--to appreciate it (despite the stretch marks and pudges in places there didn't use to be any!), and it serves as a reunion between Mom and Baby.  After 9 months physically linked-the separation is traumatic for both Mom and Baby and the feedings allow us to reconnect.

Nursing also forces me to sit down and focus on what is really important in my life.  It is one of the few times I am filled with peace that comes with knowing I am doing exactly what I am supposed to be doing. What a blessing for this OCD, perfectionist, and exhausted Mommy.

Never easier....

Counting blessings has never been easier----

Saturday, March 5 2011 Blessing #302

By some miracle Trey got Chip to his rehearsal for the piano recital that comes tomorrow.  My Mom helped me get all the clothes put away that she and Jane had washed while they stayed here with the kids.  She also went to the grocery store for me.  It is unlike me to be able to accept help even, but I've learned my lesson (only took 3 kids)--this fatigue is how I am supposed to feel, and I'm supposed to listen to my body.  The bonding that happens between mother and baby is miraculous.  She cries, I nurse, the hormones get circulating and I get motherly and drowsy.  It literally becomes physically impossible to separate myself from my baby.  Anyway, as all this important Mom and baby connections are developing, I'm thrilled to have other folks taking care of the daily stuff.  I'm so lucky!



Sunday, March 6, 2011 Blessing #303

Wow, he is impressive!  This kid has to be exhausted after the week we've had.  Different folks putting him to bed at different times, plus the near all nighter at the hospital.  He really didn't have much time to practice his piano, but he nailed it.  He wavered a bit yesterday-he wasn't sure he could pull it off, but then today he got up there and hit it out of the park.  Granna, Nan, Nana, Papa, and Aunt Melanie were all with us in the audience--and Henslee slept right through it. 

I am so glad that I was able to see him shine...and then Trey and I were off with the baby to the hospital to get her bilirubin checked and Granna took Chip from piano to his soccer scrimmage.  Again, I am amazed at how many of us it takes to get the job done!  Thank God for this family!

Food Glorious Food!

Friday, March 4, 2011 Blessing #301

It was amazing to wake up at home today.  Indeed, I woke up several times today--every 2 hours to be exact so I could nurse Henslee.  And, each time I woke up, I was glad to be home.  It is fabulous to be here with a healthy Mom and a healthy baby (I got very sick with childbed fever after Katie was born).  I am thrilled that I have brought my baby home to a house with clean windows, a completed nursery, and clean baseboards.  Trivial perhaps, but this nesting thing is for real......

Even better--my Mom was here to help with breakfast, get the kids on the bus to school, and ooh and aah over my little girl.  Then, my Daddy came after work to spend the night with us too--so I was surrounded by helping, loving hands.  Mom made a pot roast that was to die for--and perfect milk making food! Never in my life have I been this hungry!

Anyway, the blessing today? Trey and I are so lucky to have a home that we can be proud to bring a baby into.  We are fortunate to have family surround us and help us welcome her, and I am happy to have plenty to eat.  Mommy has to eat for baby to eat.....

Food Glorious Food!

Thursday March 3, 2011 Blessing #300

Home sweet home!  Finally, we left the hospital at 9:30pm.  Henslee had a little low blood sugar, and we had to wean her off a sugar IV before we could leave.  I am beyond tired--but when we got home and found my Mom there with a homemade meat loaf I sat down and cried. They were tears of relief, exhaustion, joy, and hunger!  I have never in my life been as hungry as I am nursing this baby. I swear with each nursing she must be getting the equivalent of a Muscle Milk!

Anyway, the blessing today--Thank God for my mother and her meat loaf.  Thank God that I checked into the hospital healthy and checked out the same way.  Thank God for my healthy baby and my home.

Love Multiplies

Wednesday March 2, 2011 Blessing #299

Well, I am tired.  The whole newborn thing is tough enough, but I got started down one night of sleep since I labored overnight.  Anyway, I am back and forth between elation and exhaustion-and today I am thankful for the family who is supporting us and helping us welcome Henslee.  I know I couldn't do it without them. When we headed to the hospital Monday night, my sister and then Granna were with the kids at home-Granna and PawPaw stayed with them till 3:30 am when they woke them and brought them to the hospital.  Having Granna with the kids allowed Trey to stay with me--and nothing brought my blood pressure down (talk about fluid overloaded!) like having him nearby.  My Mom and my sister, Jean, took turns walking the hospital halls with me as I labored-and managed to keep me laughing and relaxed until the very end when it was time to get serious about birthing. 

When Trey needed to leave to get Katie to soccer or Chip to soccer, there were folks to take over for him in the hospital.  Our Pastor came today and prayed a beautiful prayer asking for blessings for Henslee-one of the blessings she has already received is a large, loving, extended family.  So, today, the blessing is that I am surrounded--and so are my children--by family who love us.  The bigger the family the more love there is---my Mom always says, love doesn't divide, it multiplies.  What a truth and what a gift.

Henslee Paris Scott-A Promise, A Possibility

Tuesday March 1, 2010 Blessing #298

Every child born into the world is a new thought of God, an ever-fresh and radiant possibility.
Kate Douglas Wiggin

Welcome to our family, Henslee Paris Scott.  What a gift from God you are! I am counting blessings, and today you made it easy for me.  About 11pm last night, I really started contracting hard--and you arrived (all 10 pounds and 20.25 inches of you) at 4:27 am.  You might be the biggest of the babies I've birthed, but you were also the easiest.  You carry the names of great people--of your Grandmother Jane Henslee Scott, and her father Miles Henslee, and of your Maternal great grandmother Evelyn Paris.  I hope that the love of your namesakes uplifts you and reminds you that you are made of really good, strong stuff.

I promise to mother you the best way I can--I promise to love you unconditionally forever.  I want you to know that your Dad and I are thankful for the privilege of being your parents.  This parenting thing is the hardest work we have ever done--but it is also the best and the most important.  We will do whatever it takes to keep you safe and prepare you for a life of hard work, happiness, hope, faith, and love.  This is a day that I will cherish forever--and I will cherish you each day from now on.

 Most special today was seeing your  brother Chip and your sister Katie welcome you to the world.  Chip was moved to tears by his love for you, and Katie beamed with pride at her little sister.  You are lucky to have them as we are to have you.

Today was an adventure for you and me, Henslee, but the real adventure is just beginning! I can't wait to see what your life and our love will bring!



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Mother Nature....

Just so my six loyal readers know, I am working so hard to catch up.  I have all these blessings in my Wonder Woman notebook--but when you are up off and on all night with a new baby and chasing 2 other kids all day it is hard to sit still without falling asleep. Plus of course, I'm working for UGA and grading and planning for the Academy.  I haven't even started my thank you notes!  Please, don't give up on me!  I'm still making my bed, still not using the credit card, and still committed to counting blessings every day for 68 more days......I just need a grace period to get them on line!

Monday February 28, 2010 Blessing #297

Women's bodies have near-perfect knowledge of childbirth; it's when their brains get involved that things can go wrong.

PEGGY VINCENT, Baby Catcher

Welcome to maternity leave.  After I took the kids to school today, I was totally unsure of what to do with myself.  My work is such a part of me that I had a hard time imagining my life without it. So, what did I do? I went to my other job of course!  I scoped out my new office, picked up my paycheck, and filled out paperwork. 

Then, I did what every non working woman should do on a Monday-I had a manicure, pedicure, and brow wax.  The way I see it--I have a clean car, clean closets, clean windows, dotted "i"s and "t"s at work---pretty much everything is in order to meet Henslee.  The last piece is readying my person.  Silly maybe-that as ginormous as I am, I think a pedicure and manicure will make me beautiful for meeting my baby, but there it is none the less.

Then, Mom came to go with me to see Dr. Goggin.  I sort of thought he might discover that I had already progressed to 3 or 4 cm and just send me to the hospital to get hooked up to Pitocin.  I mean all the contractions I have been having had to accomplish something, right?  Well, they did as we found Henslee is fully engaged in my pelvis, but I was still just a centimeter or so.  Dr. Goggin briefed me on coming to the hospital tomorrow night to begin the induction process, but I said, "I think she's just going to come on!"

Mom and I went to LOCOS--I ate a plate of nachos complete with jalapenos, and a big storm rolled in.  Just after Mom left town, Katie and I took Chip to piano.  I walked a few minutes outside Ms. Robertson's house--until I heard thunder.  Then we headed in to listen to the last part of his lesson.  As we stood up to leave--and I realized the bottom was about to fall out of the sky, my water broke.  That was a first for me-the dramatic water break at the onset of labor-I was really taken aback!  Anyway, Mother Nature knows about bringing on babies when it's time--and she decided it was time.

So, today I am so thankful that I got my last preparations completed, that I had time with my Mom, that my Dr. said we are both healthy, and that Henslee decided to come on.  Inductions are well and good, but in my experience things move much easier when both Mom and Baby are ready.  And today--we were ready!

Feather The Nest

Sunday February 27, 2010 Blessing #296

Trey spent all day yesterday at the Bethlehem Ministry board meeting--and he works all the time.  Normally, I work all the time too--but on Friday I realized that I needed to be at home, so I went ahead and informed the office that I would start leave tomorrow.  I just know she's about to come--if she doesn't on her own, then she will be coming Wednesday via induction.  I am too uncomfortable to  keep teaching--too swollen to keep standing or sitting, and I have really gotten so pregnant that I am just a BIG distraction for everyone as they all are worried that I am about to go into labor during "their class!".

So, I am thrilled that today our family was at home.  We got the finishing touches ready in Henslee's room--we played with the children, and we didn't feel in a hurry.  I napped off and on all day, sorted clothes, looked out my clean windows, and imagined holding my baby. I can't wait to meet her!

I saw the Light! And it opened up my eyes....

And I am happy now living without you...I've left you Ooohhhhh! (can you hear the Ace of Base song "Sign" as you read the title?--just checking your age).

February 26, 2010  Blessing #295

Well, I am thrilled to be living without the dirt that was caked on my windows. Today, I had the windows professionally cleaned by Hardwick Window Service-and it might be the best money I have ever spent!  I don't know what happened, but one day a month or so ago I looked at the windows and couldn't believe their degree of nastiness.  I just couldn't wrap my head around bringing home a clean, fresh, new baby to a house with dirty windows (this is a trend--I had the car detailed for the same reason!).  In fact, I could barely sleep knowing how dirty the windows were...but they are not anymore!  They are so clean I need sunglasses in the house.  The light in my home has been a fabulous pick me up--and I needed one today. I am having so many contractions and so much pelvic discomfort-this baby has to be coming soon.  Anyway, today I'm thankful for clean windows--and the feeling that my home is that much closer to ready to welcome Little Henslee.

Baby Baby Baby....is there anything else to talk about?

Thursday February 24, 2010  Blessing #293

Ha!  To think I could have been at the hospital having a baby right now.  I am so glad I am not. I am thrilled to be at work-dotting Is and crossing Ts.   I needed this time to complete final prep for my absence, and I am thankful for it.  I suppose I'm nesting  at work just like I am at home.  Today, I worked on cleaning up my office so my sub would have plenty of room to work.  Also, I said all along that I hoped to make it until March 1st at work--so I am very excited that it is still in the realm of possibility.

Anyway, it was fabulous to have another day with my students--to finish up some things in my classroom, and to leave work feeling I had put things in some sort of order.  I know, order is an illusion-but it is such a happy one to a very pregnant lady.

Friday February 25, 2010 Blessing #294

My mom came today!  Out of the blue she came to spend time with me and it was wonderful. We laughed and dreamed about Henslee.  We had an incredible lunch at DePalmas, and even though I was very uncomfortable having contractions periodically her presence was so relaxing.  I know this baby is coming sooner rather than later, and I'm betting I'm not going to make it all the way to the induction date.  Without being graphic--a woman can just know as these changes start to happen, and I can tell we're headed in that direction.  So, today I am thankful for my Mom's visit-her calming influence, and apple walnut salad at Depalmas.

Catching up To Baby

Yes, I know...ridiculously behind.   But I did have a baby--so it will take me a bit to catch up!  More info on her to come.....

Sunday, February 20 Blessing #289

After church today, I headed to my favorite restaurant-Depalmas-with 2 friends from my church for another "sprinkle".  It was a delightful afternoon with yummy food, laughter, and great conversation (whoo hoo and diapers!).  I am so lucky to be plugged into to networks of such wonderful people.  I am blessed that there are folks who care for me and my family enough to celebrate momentous occasions.  I know that when this baby comes my new, bigger family will be surrounded by love and support from our family and from our community.  Thank God for my community and for God's love that surrounds me and my family!

Monday, February 21 Blessing #290

Today is faculty development day--most of the time when you say those words to a teacher, they roll their eyes.  I don't really blame them.  I have worked in situations where faculty development was code for wasted time.  I feel very fortunate that at Athens Academy it really is time for us to develop (rather than be developed--as if that is something that someone can do to you!).  Time for teachers to stop and think, to explore collaborations or new lesson material, and to fellowship. Time for professionals to grow in their profession....it is part of what sets my school apart. 

Tuesday, February 22, Blessing #291

Henslee and I got a clean bill of health today.  That is the good news!  I am not going to lie-I'm pretty uncomfortable pretty often, and I'm beginning to be ready for D day.  It was wonderful today that Trey could attend the appointment with me. Especially since Dr. Goggin told us that it appears Henslee is already 9#10ounces.  I'm conflicted about that estimate--each pregnancy I have heard that my child was much bigger than either turned out to be.  There was lots of talk of induction, amnios, etc--and ultimately those babies just came early on their own.  I would much rather Henslee come when she decides, but nonetheless we agreed to have the amnio to check for lung maturity tomorrow.  If she's mature, Dr. G will want to induce sooner rather than later....so there will be lots of decisions to make for Trey and me.

Anyhow, today I'm thankful for my doctor, my clean bill of health, and my husband.  I am also incredibly thankful for my education.  As we sat with Dr. Goggin and talked gestation, delivery, and options I couldn't help but wonder what folks do who are ignorant.  I feel empowered to question my doctors, and I hope desperately that my students will get there too.

Wednesday February 23, Blessing #292

Amnio today!  I can't believe how quickly I got an appointment. After I arrived at work, I got a phone call to come in at 10:45.  That required a good bit of juggling appointments and obligations, but having my long term sub in my classroom already is a huge help.  Anyway, Trey was able to meet me there and the procedure was a piece of cake.  My thinking was this--if I have the amnio the worst thing that will happen is I'll have the baby early. If I don't have this done, Dr. Goggin will induce me at 38 weeks and he will insist on dosing me full of steroids to help her lung development.  So, at least if her lungs are mature, I can avoid the steroids.  But still--I would rather her come on her own.

 After the amnio I had a lot of crampiness and contractions and headed home to rest.  My sister came over to sit with me till Trey got home.  I am so lucky to have family close!  Then the call came that Henslee lungs were certainly mature....so, if she needs to come on, at least her breathing should be OK.  Dr. Goggin called to say just come on to the hospital and lets have your baby....but I just couldn't do it. In fact, I burst into tears at the suggestion.  I didn't sleep last night b/c of contractions, I'm tired, my kids are hungry, my house is a mess, my oven is broken (yes, I know the baby doesn't go in there, but still!), I am out of groceries, and my kitchen is full of ants!  So I will see him on Monday...and we will go from there.  Right now the induction is tentatively scheduled for March 2--Mom's birthday!  Of course, I'm still hoping she comes on of her own accord.  Things just work out better when baby and Momma are ready.....So, thank God for my sister who helped me straighten up and kept me company.  Thank heaven for my baby who is ready for life on the outside, and thank God for my Dr. who laughed a bit, but said OK, see you Monday when I had a mini Mommy breakdown.

Bringing on Baby

Still working on catching up, and today is the day I have to get it done. I'm in a tizzy this morning. I feel a baby coming on and she is coming sooner rather than later. So, time to tie up loose ends, catch up, clean up, prepare, and do that last minute nesting.  I have been up off and on all night--and finally got up at 4:30 to pack the diaper bag, straighten her room, clean the kitchen, and move the laundry along.  Contractions all the while.....will they send me to the hospital?  I will keep you posted!

Anyway....I know I have been inconsistent lately.  I have had such swelling that finding time to sit at the computer has been next to impossible after my work day.  I'm counting along though.....Here's the report!



February 17, 2011 Blessing #286

There was a moment today that provides a perfect picture of my life--Katie was in my office coughing relentlessly.  I had asked Trey to stay home with her, but he says he never heard that--so on the way to school as she is coughing and gagging, I made the call that she would stay with me.  So, she's ill--I'm trying to keep my feet elevated to mimimize swelling in my ankles and feet, and in comes a teenage girl who is way behind in school--not just in my class, but in all of them.  Oh, don't forget that my long term sub is in there too--learning the ropes.  So, the student begins to cry--Katie has to go get her a tissue, my sub is watching wide eyed and says, "this is really a lot!".  Yep, that's my life---really a lot.  A lot of crazy, a lot of ministering, a lot of tending, and a lot of blessings.

February 18, 2011 Blessing #287

Katie and Chip are both out today--I was really wanting not to miss any work until leave started, but life had other plans.  Thank heaven for my long term sub, who was able to handle instruction with no problems.  It has filled me with peace that the transition for my students will be so smooth.  I think non teachers often don't realize the tremendous sense of responsibility we feel about our students learning and well being.  I couldn't relax and enjoy having a new baby if I was concerned that my students weren't in good hands.  Well, they are in good hands--and that frees me to get ready for Henslee and enjoy this last little bit of pregnancy.  What a blessing!

Saturday February 19, 2011 Blessing #288

This late pregnancy thing is a roller coaster ride.  Yesterday I felt fabulous-emotionally, physically-the whole nine yards. Today, I woke feeling achy, swollen, and sad.  What in the world?  Thank heaven it is Saturday-and I can rest at home and sit when I need to.  My sister came today and brought back my bed she's been borrowing.  That enabled us to get the final prep done in Henslee's room-and move Katie into a fancy big girl bed.  Before I knew it, my Mom, Grandmommy, and Jean and her family were all here too.  It was just the medicine I needed this close to delivery-especially as it started out as a low limb sort of day.  Then, Trey and I doubled with Cary and Ryan for steak dinner (fabulous.....just can't seem to get enough beef!) and we headed to see The King's Speech.  It was phenomenal, and I completely understand the Oscar buzz.  Having been down this baby road before, Trey and I both appreciated that this late Valentine's date is probably our last one for a while...pretty soon another little one will be dictating the schedule!  Anyway, today I am thankful for visiting with my family and for a last date with my husband.